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Virginity and wedding night fear
Virginity

Virgin yaa Kunwaari ka Mutlub hay essi Lurki jiss Nay kubi Sexual intercourse na keya ho ya Sexually inactive women or girl jo sexually untouched ho osko virgin yaa kunwaari kehty hen,Hymen ka Mojood hona Virginity ka sign Nahi hay, Hymen by Birth bhe Mojood nahi ho Sukta or kisi or waja say Rapture bhe ho sukta hay, ess leyeh hymen virginity ki zumanat nahi hay jis Female ka hymen hay wo bhe virgin hay or jiska hymen mojood nahi wo bhe . virginity ka Mutlab hay Sexually Untouched, Sexually inactive male or female yani jiss nay kissi Qissum ka sex na keya ho,

Hymen

Hymen tissues ki ek thin Layer hoti hay jisny vagina kay hole ko cover keya hota hay hymen thin bhe ho sukta hay or thick bhe different girls meah different shape and size kay sath vaginal opening meah mojood hota hay,, ,hymen say Just periods ka blood or vaginal discharges kay pass hony kay leyeh chota sa hole hota hay ek say ziyada choty choty hole ho sukty hen, sub women meah hymen ek jesaa nahi hota , or koch women ka hymen by birth hota he nahi hay , es leyeh hymen ko just virginity ka mark sumajnaa bilkol ghult hay,

Hymen in History

Zumana-a-Qudeem say Hymen ko virginity ka mark sumja jata hay or abi bhe humary culture meah or world kay different countries meah hymen ko virginity kay leyh bot important tasawar keya jata hay, lakin sub sexually inactive females jinka hymen by birth hota he nahi hay wo bhe virgin he hoti hen, sexually active nahi hoti ,

Hymen shape and size

Hymen by birth na hony kay sath sath hymen size and shape kay lehaaz say bhe different hota hay its varies in shape and size from women to women lakin normal hymen holf moon ki tura hota hay yani vagina hole fully cover nahi hota,, dur ussal hymen sari vagin opening ko cover nahi kurta jesaa meah nay oper likha hay kay menstrual blood or discharges kay leyeh way mojood hota hay, yani koch women meah hymen meah chota sa ek hole ho sukta hay or koch women meah ek say ziyada holes or koch females meah hyme clearly 2 parts meah hota hay jis meah 2 he bury bury hole mojood hoty hen lakin hymen mojood hota hay, hymen ka koi dosra function abi tuk ni puta chula , hymen kay mojood hony ka mutlab yeh leya jata hay kay female sexually active nahi hay, lakin bot see females by birth with out hymen bhe payda hoti hen,.


Hymen kay rapture hony ki non-sexual causes
Kisi injury ya accidental hymen ka rupture ho jana
Bicycling , high jump, or dosri ziyada ochul kood wali gams say
Tampon kai waja say bhe
Finger insertion say ya kubi medically doctor jub kubi zuroorat kay tehat pelvic exam kurin ,
Most common shape and size of hymen


1-Normal hymen (like Half moon)

2-Fully covered hymen (completely closed)

3-Hymen with one hole

4-Hymen with more then one hole

Some time hymen ka shape and size normal na hony ki waja say females ko kafi problem ka samna bhe kurna purta hay jesy periods kay blood ko pass kurny kay leyeh hole ka bot chota hona ya hymen ka bilkol vagina ko cover keyeh hona yaa , tu essi sorat meah doctors minor surgery kur kay extra tissues ko remove kur daty hen jisy opening clear ho jati hay or periods meah pain or discomfort feel nahi hoti, koch female ka hymen etna nazak hota hay jo game , long jump ,cycling, running, ochul kod meah break ho jata hay or koch females ka hymen etna sukht hota hy kay intercourse meah bhe zura moshkil say break hota hay or jub break hota hy tu ziyada bleeding ka bahiss bunta hay, lakin normal hymen ki bleeding etni nahi hoti,

First wedding night fear and misunderstandings

Dacha ghiya hay mostly females khof-zuda hoti hen kay puta nahi mera hymen hay kai nahi
first weddgin night hymen na howa or bleeding na hoi tu keya hoga,
Puta nahi husband keya sochy gah aghur hymen na howa tu. Divorce na day day,
puta nahi ketna durd or bleeding hogi ?
Puta nahi meah onky samny kesy be have kuro gahi,
Puta nai wo mery sath kesy intercourse kurty hen
Or agur kisi female ko puta ho kay wo virgin nahi hay tu wo or he khofzuda hoti hay,

Husband ko chayeh kay wo apni wife ka dur or khof khutam kury, lurki jo apna ghur bar maa baap sub koch chor kay shadi kur kay husband kay pas ati hay tu wo ossy apna sub koch manti hay, jo oper dur or khof or bride kay mind meah ghoomny waly suwalat hen or khof hay esko husband ko dour kurna chayeh apni bato say apny peyar say, apny romance say, wedding night ka environment friendly ho , khofzuda mahool nahi ho esa nahi hona cha yeh kay bride khof kay mary laal peeli ho rahi hay or husband Hiwaas bhuri nuzro say intercourse perform kurny jaa raha hay yeh ghult bat hay

Romantic hon, friendly hon, jub bride relax ho jay pher sexual intercourse ki turaf jayin or foreplay satart kurin

Hymen rapture hony ka ketna pain hota hay


Yeh bot common saa question hay or hur female kay mind meah ata hay kay pain ketna hoga, puta nai meah burdash kur paonghi ya nai , etc,. pain bot kum or bot kum time lay leyeh feel hota hay jo hymen ky rupture hony ka hota hay lakin dry vagina ki waja say pain mosulsal ho sukta hay,hymen rupture ka pain bot he kum hota hay, agur wetness achi ho tu hymen rapture ka pain feel he nai hota,

intercourse ka painful hona serf hymen ki waja say he nahi hota sub say buri wajaa first wedding night jo ho sukti hay wo fear or stress ki waja say vaginal dryness yani wetness ka na hona hay ku kay bride meah agur dur ba dustoor mojood hay tu vagina dry reh sukti hay es leyeh apny room ka environment or apna wife kay sath sulook dostanaa or peyaar wala rukhin, yaad rukhin women ko sex say ziyada peyar or mohabat ki zurorat hoti hay,so ap bride ka dur or khof hug kur kay loving touching , kissing, or hussas parts ko stimulate kurny say ap dour kur sukty hen lakin esky elawa bhe ap apny room ka environment koch es turaa most romantic bunaa sukty hen,
apny bedroom ko achi tura decorate kurin
bed pay rose petal Gholaab ki Kuliyaan bichaayin
Candle stand pay candles roshun kurin
Koi peyara sa romantic song play kurin,
Room meah ziyada light ni ho 0 watt ka bulb roshun kurin esy apko apny room ka mahool or peyara lugy gah bulb red color ya pink color ka ho , full light meah mostly females uneasy feel kurti henYe wo tummam steps hen jisy ap apna environement romantic or fear free ekdum relax buna sukty hen

Sexual intercourse say phelly chund bato ko mind meah rukhin

Dry vagina meah intercourse kurny say dono ko tukleef ho sukti hay es leyeh foreplay kay bhad jub vagina meah wetness ajay tu wo he wetness apny peniss pay lugaa kay intercourse start kurin taa kay pain ki shiddut ko kum say kum keya ja suky, agur hymen by birth nahi bhe tu first time intercourse say pain bhe ho sukta hay or bleeding bhe ho sukti hay, or yeh bleeding hymen kay shap and size ki budolat kum yaa ziyada bhe ho sukti hay or just spot bhe lug sukta hay, or by birth hymen na hony ki wajaa say bleeding nahi bhe ho sukti , ess leyeh apni soch ko positive direction meah lay kay jayin na kay shataani wus wusoo ki par-vee kurin,
Wedding night ko ek say ziyada bar intercourse say avoid kurin,

For Bride tips to reduce fear and pain

First time wedding night meah intercourse meah pain ki shidut ko or khof ko kum kurny kay leyeh ap foreplay meah romance meah apny juzbaat ka izhaar es tura kurin kay ap apny husband say bot peyar kurti hen, ap hug kur sukti hen jesy apko husband hug kury gah esi tura during kiss, essi tura ap apny hatho ko romantic undaz meah use kur sukti hen husband say izhaar a mohabat meah jub apny juzbat ka izhaar es undaz meah khod kurin ghi tu apka fear kum hoga or during intercourse bhe apko pain ki shidat ka ehsaas nahi hoga some time kisi tuklef ya pain ko sochny say bhe oski shidut ka ziyada ehsaas hota hay es leyeh ap apny husband say izhar a mohabat ka izhaar osy peyar kur kay , kiss kur kay oski back pay osky balo osky Ghalo pay payar say hath payr kay hug kur kay kur sukti hen essy apka fear kum hoga or ap khod intercourse ko enjoy bhe kur sukyin gay, esky elawaa first time during intercourse ap thori extra acting bhe kur sukti hen jesy bot pain ho raha hay, jub tuk vagina meah wetness ni ati intercourse start nai kurin dry vagina kay sath pain ho sukta hay,

Husband wife relation

Allah Husband wife kay durmiyaan Ba-punah mobabat dal daty hen , es relation meah Trust ki bot importance hay or trust ko shataani wuswasy damage kur sukty hen or trust khutam ho jay tu shukook or shobaat junam laty hen or relation weak pur jata hay, ess leyeh husband or wife dono ko apna trust or apny Allah pay faith kamil rukhna cha yeh, jub du khandaan ek lurki kaa intakhaab kurty hen tu pori apni turaf say pori verification ki jati hay lurky or lurki dono ki.,first wedding night ko bleeding na hony ka yeh mutlab hur gezz na leiyaa jay kay wife virgin nahi thi some time hymen by birth nahi hota or some time etna thin hota hay kay bleeding ka or pain ka etna undaza bhe nahi hota some time first wedding night first ko hymen break bhe pori turaa nahi hota dosry din again intercourse say break hota hay, husband ki zima dari hay kay wo apni wife ka khof or dur dour kury or essy shukook or shobaat apny mind meah na lay apni soch or fikur ko positive rukhy,

For unmarried females
Un married females ko cha yeh wo essi games essi activites say avoid kurin jisy hymen repture hony ka chance ho, virgin hona ek female kay leyeh bhe ezzut or wuqaar or ek honor hota hay es leyeh apni virginity ki care kurin or illegal activites like masturbation or illegal sexual relation say ijtinaab kurin ek tu Gonah kubeera hay or in future wedding life meah problem aa sukty hen, personal hygiene ka khiyaal kurin, essy literature, films say avoid kurin jin say sexual desire increase hoti ho or esi tura apny mungatur ya kisi na mehram say kisi turaa kay sexual relation rukhny say apny ap ko buchayin en chezo kay ussuraat achy nahi hoty gonaah tu hota he hay, apni virginity ki hifazat kurin,

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