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Hi everyone. My name is Farheen and i would love to share my real love story as i hope it would help others gain self confidence.When i was in 8th class my cousin proposed me that he loves me very much and at that time i was very young and uncertain about my decisions so i asked him to wait for my answer.I used to stay abroad whereas he used to stay here in Pakistan. We used to meet just for 40 days after every two years but even then i never answered him. As soon as i finished my intermediate (from 8th to intermediate its complete 4 years) i came to Pakistan to complete my Bachelors and thats when we actually got to know about eachother. As i got to know about him i realised he was a wonderful person and very much committed as well as loyal to me. The only problem was that he was least interested in his studies and hardly cared for his academics. This worried me as i was the only daughter of my parents who were seeking for me a highly educated and well settled groom. We met for first time on 4th february when i was completing my degree first year whereas he has completed his bachelors but he had two papers left to clear. At that time he told me honestly about himself that he hardly cared for his academics but he promised me that he will do anything for my sake. I fell in love with him at that moment but never revealed to him anything. I wanted him to clear his papers and join Masters if he honestly loves me and wants me to become his life partner. I still remember he gave all that he could to clear his papers and soon he got admission in one of the colleges. I started trusting him so i approached to my parents as i revealed to them everything about him. (Even my parents knew about his academics.)I convinced them and gave them faith that i believe him and i can never be wrong. At that time i dint knew what made me take that decision and only on my trust, my parents engaged me to this person. And we were together from that day. I used to wake him up in the morning during exams and he used to study from morning to night. And finally he cleared his M.B.A that too with first division. I was abroad when he called me up nervously revealing that he has an interview to face and i gave him confidence and support. Within a week i came to know he was the one selected out of 120 candidates for the job. Now he is going Dubai to get settled and i have seen his love grow along with time as he never changed. He loved me before and he loves me now also. He is the best person in the whole world and i only wanted to tell all of you that if you truly love someone then to acheive that person you go to any extent and thats what my Younusjii proved. I love you Younus jii! And you people learn to have faith on your love and if you believe in him then there is no problem waiting for him coz true love happens just once and rest is life. I will let all of you know when we are getting married. TAKE CARE!

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Wow, what a sacha pyar.

congratulation!!this very very nice news of love in2008.

every body nows love is love and heart is power ,without heart no bady can talk ,laugh,smile,enjoy.........goodluck!!!!!!!!

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The only problem is that this is not our culture to have 'love marriages', countries where the norm is to have 'love marriages' their movies and stories emphasis this as the only way to have a blissful married life despite the ever growing failure model of 'love marriages'.

That is how everyone does for their culture and tradition, propagate it and socially enforce it. The problem I see with Pakistani dramas & movies and 'stories' is that they condemn Pakistani culture and romantacize the already confirmed failure strategy called 'love marriage.' Usually these silly destructive 'love stories' get parrotted all over as a 'great thing' in direct contradiction of Pakistani culture. More like self-condemning your own culture and traditions by yourself, thus making yourself a laughing stock.

In Pakistan Culture over 95% of marriages are 'arranged marriages' and 95% of marriages are successful. Tell me of one drama of movie where arranged marriage was shown as the better option ?

If you are going to adopt something from the West, why not adopt the good things e.g. rationality, logic, civics etc etc ?

Priya

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It is indeed a good message & showing the maturity,sense & truth of feelings although seldom.Behind every successfull man there is a woman & we should be man enough to aknowledge it (Not like men chauvinists).If there is true feelings of love still the parrents should be consulted & asked to get their prayers,guardianship & support to make it a arrange marriage.Nothing like it,marital bond is not only between two individual rather between two families,parrents should show also maturity & deal with it with senseabilly.Mushytail on this your views I am 100% agreed with you(Surprised Rolling Eyes

) what you have said is the reality of our society & misleading of our film/TV medium.One should learn & adopt from anyone,any culture & any society anything positive.It is not important who is saying or doing rather what is said what he is doing.There is no borders of knowledge & education.

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well said mushytail. be well!!!

mushytail wrote:

The only problem is that this is not our culture to have 'love marriages', countries where the norm is to have 'love marriages' their movies and stories emphasis this as the only way to have a blissful married life despite the ever growing failure model of 'love marriages'.

That is how everyone does for their culture and tradition, propagate it and socially enforce it. The problem I see with Pakistani dramas & movies and 'stories' is that they condemn Pakistani culture and romantacize the already confirmed failure strategy called 'love marriage.' Usually these silly destructive 'love stories' get parrotted all over as a 'great thing' in direct contradiction of Pakistani culture. More like self-condemning your own culture and traditions by yourself, thus making yourself a laughing stock.

In Pakistan Culture over 95% of marriages are 'arranged marriages' and 95% of marriages are successful. Tell me of one drama of movie where arranged marriage was shown as the better option ?

If you are going to adopt something from the West, why not adopt the good things e.g. rationality, logic, civics etc etc ?

Priya

WELL MUSHY ur rite,,,but u c parents should ask for the consent of the children before finalizing the marriage proposal and this is what Islam also says,,,i dont know abt other religions much,,,but i do agree with ur comments tht our media doesnot show the reality,,,even u like somebody u can marry him/her with consent of ur parents ,,,so a combination of Love/arranged marriage,,,