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Pakistani Sex Education? Is sex education important for teen girls and guys?
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Sex Education Pakistan
Sex education is very important for all of us. But in our society, we usually dont discuss these king of matters.

What do you think the importance of sex education? How sex education awareness can be created in Pakistan?

What do you think is the best medium for this awareness and education.

Any suggestions and comments? Please also give your votes.

Please discuss the matter in good moral (positively).
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NO Ku ka mara khayal ma jab tak ap koi sex ka nahi pata ho ja tab tak ap bach sakta ho lakin jab ap is ko apni study ma shamil kar lo ja to pir insan ke fitrat ha ka is ko karna ke koshis kara ja is sa moashra ma bori pala gee

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Yar waisay he Mobile Phone nay masharay ki bajayehoi hai, aur app Sex Education k topic lay bethay hoo. Ye hamaray culture k hisa nai hai, ye goro k chochlay hain.

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there should b sex education in schools but a/c to the rules of Islam.Quran also tells us about sexual relationships,etc.agar Quran ki translation perh li jai or samjh li jai to kaafi he.or haan Ahdees b
do u agree?
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Farya ap ke Baat balkul tak ha Lakin in logo ko is Sex Education ke bara ma nahi pata jo goverment education ma shamil karna chati ha vo boot koli doli ha ma na ak site par daki ke

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Zarooriii hai ess baray mein sub ko pataa honaa chaeyay.......

lookk app aikk cheezz kissii sayy chuppaayey gayy tuuu uss kii kash-ma-kashh barhay gii............

agar par say restriction hathaaa deaann gayy tuu koi kash-ma-kash nahn reh jaeyay gi.............

khas karrr new generationn iss cheezz sayy tabah hoo rahii.........

app deakheenn kitnayy mobilee hain ess kii waja sayy utnaa heee kanjarr khaannaa par gayaa hai............

aisaaayy heee sex education jooo haii kissii perspectivee sayy batannaa chaeyay yehh nahn kay aik dumm open that will

destroy everything n also we ppl r not so much libral ..n it doestn't look nice to our people...

keep thiss educationn in goodd perspectivee........

so in this way i thinkk it will be goodd......for generation n for all.............

Thnks ..............
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Farya ap ke Baat balkul tak ha Lakin in logo ko is Sex Education ke bara ma nahi pata jo goverment education ma shamil karna chati ha vo boot koli doli ha ma na ak site par daki ke

nobody can say any thing untill they read that stuff
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Nice discussion, hope to see some more comments.
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Humari society me Education bahut zaroori hai . Sexual Education humari society ko suit nahin karti . Yun bhi ye koi itna bara issue nahin hai , I mean humare mulk me Major issue maujood hain like Law and Order, Corruption , Illegal Weapons , Anarchie , list is going on and on .......
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It should be incorperated into well-rounded compulsory islamiat education.
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I think that the pakistani youth should be made aware of the diseases and hazards that are out there as a result of unprotected sex such as hIV AIDS and unwanted pregnancies, pakistani television is getting bold with it displays on the subject, such as in the pakistani drama kaanch i was surprised to see the theme being blackmail sex of a young girl, and birth control being used as a concept so openly. Being in a western society i think we are taught especially girls how to protect themselves and take action against potential sex abuse how to prevent pregnancy after a rape and so on, its all in the way we approach the subject and discusss it keeping in mind that they should also be reminded that the religious concequences are also an aspect that should be taught and implemented on, ultameitly its a decision that an individual takes themselves but i do feel that if the education were provided then atleast it would be an informed decision.
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there should b sex education in schools but a/c to the rules of Islam.Quran also tells us about sexual relationships,etc.agar Quran ki translation perh li jai or samjh li jai to kaafi he.or haan Ahdees b
do u agree?

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mohib07 wrote:
Yar waisay he Mobile Phone nay masharay ki bajayehoi hai, aur app Sex Education k topic lay bethay hoo. Ye hamaray culture k hisa nai hai, ye goro k chochlay hain.


Even here in the west where there is sex education available,what does it changed.They are sexually & morally more bankkrupt.One learn at home(GHAREELOO TARBIAT).In reality we cannot afford all such things in our society.In every responsible house parrents educate their children about all these important issues.Must not always be direct told but there are our social ways to educate our children.We as a Muslim should not only read & learn QURAN & AHADITH but try to practically follow it.There is everything there which can lead us towards a decent Muslim life.Whatever we invest in our children pays back.Ask Allah to increase our knowledge & to practice Islam according to its true spirit.
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farya wrote:
there should b sex education in schools but a/c to the rules of Islam.Quran also tells us about sexual relationships,etc.agar Quran ki translation perh li jai or samjh li jai to kaafi he.or haan Ahdees b
do u agree?

Yes I do agree if we follow the real teaching of Islam.Do invest our time in our children,inform them about all such Issues according to our own Religious teaching,Moral values & social norms we should have no problem educating them.In fact if the Islam is practiced & followed in its spirit everything is than included.But in our society there are certain Social norms that must not be ignored or overruled rather the parrents if theirselves are halfway educated can inform & educate their children about it.Infact sex education in the schools haven,t changed anything here in the west rather have leaded them towards Moral & sexual bankkrupcy.They have arrived the lowest degree of human wildness,sexual abuses & depth of all the moral & social norms.We know that our society is not the ideal one in this sense because of Westernisation,Streeet children,Child labour,not having enough time for our children,children brought up on HARRAM wealth & going far from Islam.A education of a children in good families started from at home,the parrents are the best institution to learn about everything.Accademic education comes after.
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If you guys keep following us ie people in west then more trouble awaits you ..more trouble than u r in now!!!
whats wrong with mothers teaching daughters all that. Why it has to be in school? For once anyone sit down and ask yourself ..Quo Vadimus.

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i agree wid alex...but its seen tht mothers dont tell these stuff before their kids actually gets married...aur abh pakistan mei itni awareness ah gi hai kay wahan kay kids yeh sub net se yeh phir movies se dekh lety hain...aur jab parenst yeh sub hid karty hain tu kids get more curiose towards this...so instead of teaching it in skool parents ko chai woh rite time meaning jab un kay kids maturity level par ah jen tu un ko achy bury kay bary mei baata den..so they dont find this topic as curious intresting topic...cus usaully teenagers ki habit hoti hai kay jo cheez un se hid ki je woh us ki thraf ziadh attract hoty hain...aur yeh cheez sub se ziadh dangerous hoti hai...finding abt these stuff from movies and net aor frnds where they glaorify all this is more dangerous...so its better to teach ur teenagers abt this before they get to know abt this thorugh wrong sorcues...
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Yes it should be, But i think some people take it in wrong side.

It is not about to do sex aor how to sex. This would be about problems relatring to sex. In the teen age we dont know about this but very keen to know . If some person miss guide the teen so what happend ( and it is tru that people miss guided) I think its better way to teach by mothers and fathers. Mother can easily guide her daughter and same for boys and father. There is nothing wrong in this way.

If there is something wrong then why Allah disscussed in Quraan' and even said that We describe these in open way so you could understand easily.

Sorry to say about our culture, It is borrowed from Hindoos more then 75 % in Paksitan. Why teaching a girl or boys about sex and guid them in proper way is wrong and if they dont know and did something wrong then just kill them is our culture. Who is the responsible, They or we......... ?
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Aslam O Alikum,
There is a lack of Journal education in Pakistan. And there are many childrens in pakistan they need basic education and they want to go in the good schools and they want to go to earn good money.They have beautifull dreams like a rich people.There is a lack of good educational instutations in Pakistan and all so there is a lack of good teachers as well.And another important thing that we don't have a full knowledge of ISLAM and even we are not trying to learn about ISLAM. If we try to learn ISLAM in full means from a GOOD AND GREAT VALUE teacher and than apply on your life and BE A PRACTICAL MUSLIM.Than you will feel batter.This is the responsibality of the government of Pakistan and the local government and the local community to make effort to built and run these kind of institutions in their communities. Lets start from today to do something in this way. This is a SADAQA E JAREYAH.
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hamra culture is baat ki ijazat nahi deta To hum is baray main kuch soachain hi kion ik cheez jaiaz nahi hai uske baray main bahas kia kerna ?
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WOW.. This is a nice and a touchy subject. Thanx for making a post on this topic.

There are levels of educations. What we need at the moment is BASIC EDUCATION. We do not have basic education yet in Pakistan and we are talking about Sex Education. Its a Taboo subject and if you start teaching this subject to an uneducated person all you will get is more desperation and the Sex Crimes will be all time high. My nation is GANG Raping women infront of everyone out in the open and no one is stoping them. My nation is burying women alive and no one is doing anything. My nation is selling angel like children to child molesters of older age, and we are not doing anything and we are talking about Sex Education.

First what we need to do is control these predetors of innocense and then we can put some sense into them and only after that we can talk about SE in schools.

I can assure you that all the knowledge we have about sex (education or else) is from out side and not from home which is not healthy kind of education. You know what I mean. Let me be more EXPLICIT. I mean, we all have learnt about mast********n from out side and those who do not do it are just simply plain liars. We are a nation of Double standards. At home we have one rule and outside we have another. For our families we have one view and for families of others we have another view.

You are praying outside the mosque and a covered hijabed women passes by and I am sure 99.9% of the ALPHA males will look and try to XRAY the lady. This is true everywhere.

Most of us are Muslims here and my respects to those who are following the Islamic faith. So I will just speak from my point of Islamic view on the issue. i would like to get my children to get educated by a certified teacher, who can explain them for all their queries and kids can have a wild imagination in this world cuz, they have more knowledge no then ever before, be it in movies, internet, mobiles or in whatever shape it can be. It will atleast let them know what is good and what is bad and what Islam has to say in this regard, as we are not willing to open to our own children.

No one will teach how to cut your pubic hair. Atleast no taught me. My first abusive words (Galiyan) were learnt in school when I was in 3rd grade.

Islamyat or Islamic studies can play an important role. It should be started from a certain age and with certified teachers. Or do you want to teach these things to your kids from those Stage show dramas or the Star TV network? the choice is yours.

I know I have been explicit, but this is a subject where you cannot stay clean in words and I am not sorry for it cuz when we signed and registered for this forum, I was asked my age if I was above 13 years of age. So we are all educated and adults here.


Regards,

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Ok, I was not going to reply to this topic unless some sex monger started another similar topic on this forum and to my understanding this topic is so easy to understand by anyone who is even plain stupid and belongs to our society, and who knows the social norms, culture and religious values of Pakistan.

For your information Islam doesnt allow this education to be given in schools, it is understandable as when this education is given in schools there will be loads of problems awaiting the pupils there will be no sense of shyness amongst the pupils and it will lead to experimentation and hence disaster of our generations as it is happening in the west. Today if sexual education is approved in our schools tomorrow same people of so called "moderately enlightened" thinking will rise and approve a resolution from our national assembly about sex being legal.

And when we talk about sexual education, there are two types or areas that sexual education can have:

1) How to facilitate ones sexual life (western version) [This is additional education which is not compulsory for someone to be healthy physically/psychologically]
2) How to eradicate ones sexual problems [This is the basic educational requirement for someone to be healthy psychologically/physically]

For 2nd case sexual education must only be given by parents at home, girls should get this from their mothers/elder sisters and boys from their fathers or elder brothers. It is important that boys should have a friendly relationship with their fathers and same for girls so that they can easily communicate. It all depends on parents how they raise their children. I would say that the sexual abuses that we see in our society is all because of the parents of this generation are so lazy and so nut-minded that they dont educate their children (not sexually) but the civic sense has completely gone. In this 2nd case of sexual education I would say that parents should help their kids gain confidence when they undergo physical/sexual changes or problems they face to an adult age and NOT how to have sex with your partner(which belogns to first case), so this education should be targetted to eliminate any problems in the life of kids and only by parents. The main problem of sex education in schools or by a teacher is that kids at an early age like 14-15 donot have a mature mind and whatever way you give them sex education at that age it is finally going to lead into a bad ending because a kid is not mature enough to take that education towards the right conclusion, however thats not the case always. I think most of the parents in Pakistan are busy in earning these days and just spending their life, they dont know that the only wealth they are going to leave after their death will be their children and if they dont work on their children then their earnings, their efforts to survive, their efforts to spend money on the high edge schools for their children, they are all scrapped because when you cannot bring up a good generation you are actually destroying your own country with your very own hands. Parents should prioritise their goals and their children's education(out of school) should be the highest priority.


In 1st case whihch is more like the western version of education where they actually tell pupils in the school about much more things than the problems of ones sexual life, where they tell them how to do it? and how to do it safely which basically leads to curiousity amongst kids and hence they start maturing sexually at a very early stage which is not good for their psychological/physical growth, this is where Paedophiles/rapists and offenders are formed that at a very early age they start thinking this way and find ways to do it. Sex Education at school for pupils at young age i-e between 14-18 years basically leads them to an uncontrollable state, and finally they fall into one of the worse pit of drugs, because they are sexually very mature but they are not mentally mature to drive that education to bring about good results in your life. Mental maturity which is not always related to your age but most of the times it is related to the age of a person as behaviour of a person changes based on experiences and age. So you need the maturity of a 20 year old person to use the sexual education in a right direction (that might not be true for all but most cases).

So, I would say a big NO to education in the schools and YES for parents to basically be aware of the problems of their children and educate them accordingly so they dont get involved in harmful practices.

Secondly, I think our country is in a big mess right now so we should emphasize discussing constructive and much important subjects than this as this is a secondary thing you can live without it, we should address the primary issues as much as we can.

I would require the initiator of this topic to change the topic from "Sex Education Pakistan" to only "Sex Education" because this is not our trait.
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