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Love marriage v Arrange marriage?
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Love marriage v Arrange marriage?

Marriage but Love marriage or Arrange marriage?
Love
55%
 55%  [ 62 ]
Arrange
44%
 44%  [ 49 ]
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Riya
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mainay pehlay bhi kaha tha kay both are dangorous so plz plz plz keep think before marry Wink Wink

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mainay pehlay bhi kaha tha kay both are dangorous so plz plz plz keep think before marry Wink Wink



Are itni bhi Dangerous nahi hai, Try to kar ke dekho!

But No Guarantee.... Kahin sara ilzam mujh pe na aajaye....... Wink

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The IT Perspective )
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*Love Marriage*: Resembles procedural programming language. We have
some set functions like flirting, going to movies together, making long
conversations on phone and then try to fit all functions to the candidate we like.

*Arranged Marriage*: Similar to object oriented programming approach.
We first fix the candidate and then try to implement functions on her. The
main object is fixed and various functions are added to supplement the main
program. The functions can be added or deleted.

*Love Marriage*: It is a throwaway type of prototype as client
requirements rises with time thus it is a dynamic system and difficult to maintain.

*Arranged Marriage *: Requirements are well defined so use of waterfall
model is possible.

*Love Marriage*: Family system hangs because hardware called parents
are not responding.

*Arranged Marriage*: Compatible with hardware Parents.

*Love Marriage*: You are the project leader so u are responsible for
implementation and execution of PROJECT- married life.

*Arranged Marriage*: You are a team member under project leader parents
so they are responsible for successful execution of project Married life.

*Love Marriage* : Client expectations include exciting feature as
spouse cooking food, washing clothes etc.

*Arranged Marriage*: All these features are covered in the SRS as
required features.


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hmmmm Well i would say arrange marriage for those who live in Merged families ,,
but for People who dont live in merged families system ,then love marriage for them ,,,because they have to live in a seperate house or flat ,, so i think Love marriage is beetter for people ,who dont have any link with merged family systems Smile ,,,,,
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Anne wrote:
Riya wrote:
mainay pehlay bhi kaha tha kay both are dangorous so plz plz plz keep think before marry Wink Wink



Are itni bhi Dangerous nahi hai, Try to kar ke dekho!

But No Guarantee.... Kahin sara ilzam mujh pe na aajaye....... Wink




Bohat Achay bhaiee Bohaatt Achay ! yani Risk ! ohhh i m so scard soch kay hee Shocked

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Rana Naeem
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Kya love marriage arrange naheen ho sakti?
Love or arrange ka apna hi maza hai, han parents ki marzi bhi shamil ho jaey to zayada hi acha hai...

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A WIFE is like a compUter...
She will "ENTER" Ur life
"SAVE" U in her heart
"FORMAT" Ur brain
"EDIT" Ur life
And then "DELETE" U from Ur money!!

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DreamzZ wrote:
A WIFE is like a compUter...
She will "ENTER" Ur life
"SAVE" U in her heart
"FORMAT" Ur brain
"EDIT" Ur life
And then "DELETE" U from Ur money!!


not all wives are like this one.....

waise aap ko kaafi experience hai.... Cool

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Riya
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Anne wrote:
DreamzZ wrote:
A WIFE is like a compUter...
She will "ENTER" Ur life
"SAVE" U in her heart
"FORMAT" Ur brain
"EDIT" Ur life
And then "DELETE" U from Ur money!!


not all wives are like this one.....

waise aap ko kaafi experience hai.... Cool



i think he have this kind of wife Wink

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Beleive me after marriage, it does not make any difference. It is all the same.

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Riya wrote:
Anne wrote:
DreamzZ wrote:
A WIFE is like a compUter...
She will "ENTER" Ur life
"SAVE" U in her heart
"FORMAT" Ur brain
"EDIT" Ur life
And then "DELETE" U from Ur money!!


not all wives are like this one.....

waise aap ko kaafi experience hai.... Cool



i think he have this kind of wife Wink


Ary kaisee bahain hain BAHI key sary poll khol diy public key samny Wink

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Anne wrote:
DreamzZ wrote:
A WIFE is like a compUter...
She will "ENTER" Ur life
"SAVE" U in her heart
"FORMAT" Ur brain
"EDIT" Ur life
And then "DELETE" U from Ur money!!


not all wives are like this one.....

waise aap ko kaafi experience hai.... Cool


Experince hee too nahi hey is liy Wink still stupid Sad

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I have read weird arguments about the love and arrange marriages.In my opinion no one can love after and before the marriage.It is not like playing games and other stuff...........Love making is a passion and you can not say that lets start loving each other.It happens with out any effort or taking some steps.So in my opinion it depends upon the situation you are in.Any way I will go for love marriage.
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DreamzZ wrote:
Riya wrote:
Anne wrote:
DreamzZ wrote:
A WIFE is like a compUter...
She will "ENTER" Ur life
"SAVE" U in her heart
"FORMAT" Ur brain
"EDIT" Ur life
And then "DELETE" U from Ur money!!


not all wives are like this one.....

waise aap ko kaafi experience hai.... Cool



i think he have this kind of wife Wink


Ary kaisee bahain hain BAHI key sary poll khol diy public key samny Wink



haan to bhai aisi stupidity na karay na Wink

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Riya wrote:
DreamzZ wrote:
Riya wrote:
Anne wrote:
DreamzZ wrote:
A WIFE is like a compUter...
She will "ENTER" Ur life
"SAVE" U in her heart
"FORMAT" Ur brain
"EDIT" Ur life
And then "DELETE" U from Ur money!!


not all wives are like this one.....

waise aap ko kaafi experience hai.... Cool



i think he have this kind of wife Wink


Ary kaisee bahain hain BAHI key sary poll khol diy public key samny Wink



haan to bhai aisi stupidity na karay na Wink



Ary sister kuch guzara karaooo...woo kiya kety hain...

Yeh Piyar main Q hota hey Wink

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It depends, Because some people want to fall in love before marrage and some perfer to fall in love after marrage, and some even dont care. Some people want to live their lives with some one they already know and some perfer to start their lives with someone totally new. Both have positives and negatives to them. Cant really say that love marrage is good and arrange is bad Or arrange marrage is good and Love marrage is bad.

But I would go for Love Marrage!

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A WIFE is like a compUter...
She will "ENTER" Ur life
"SAVE" U in her heart
"FORMAT" Ur brain
"EDIT" Ur life
And then "DELETE" U from Ur money!!


This computer must have windows 97 or 98 on it, it needs Win Vista! old day are gone, cuz i think this is not how it works now.



simsim


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Love arranged marriage is the best

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shakeelmscw wrote:
Love arraged marriage is the best


Experince bolta hey baba!!! Kiya baat hey Wink
App ney love kee ya arrange ya phir dono ??

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DreamzZ wrote:
shakeelmscw wrote:
Love arraged marriage is the best


Experince bolta hey baba!!! Kiya baat hey Wink
App ney love kee ya arrange ya phir dono ??


Bhai dono he samjoo, haan magar shaadi aik he hoi hai Wink

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Bhai dono he samjoo, haan magar shaadi aik he hoi hai Wink


Q doosri ka program bee hey Wink

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shakeelmscw wrote:

Bhai dono he samjoo, haan magar shaadi aik he hoi hai Wink


Q doosri ka program bee hey Wink


Yaar kuch aqqal say kaam looo.

Aik is the perfect.


Assal main mera matlab tha kay pehlay love kiya, pher ghar walloon ko razi kiya aur unn ko yeh show kawwaya kay yeh shadi to unn ki marzi say ho rahi hai, aur pher kaha main to udder hi shadi karoon gaa, jahan woh kahaain gay.

Sheeee-- kisi ko battana naheen. Neutral


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Yaar kuch aqqal say kaam looo.

Aik is the perfect.


Assal main mera matlab tha kay pehlay love kiya, pher ghar walloon ko razi kiya aur unn ko yeh show kawwaya kay yeh shadi to unn ki marzi say ho rahi hai, aur pher kaha main to udder hi shadi karoon gaa, jahan woh kahaain gay.

Sheeee-- kisi ko battana naheen. Neutral


Hehe aqqal hoti too main idher na hota Wink


Stay blessed

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In my situation it was first love (parents didn't know) then Parents discussed our topic of marriage with each other (still not knowing about our love) and then when it was final by parents, They found out that we loved each other way before our parents decided it.

so it is a loving-arranged Marriage Very Happy And I am very happy

My opinion about which is better.. Love and Arrange is the best kind of marriage you can get.

Your and your parents choice on the same is best.

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i wish i cud do both luv n arrange so every1'z happy Laughing

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i wish i cud do both luv n arrange so every1'z happy Laughing


Then i will wish you Good Luck for 2 Marraiges . . .

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