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Sajjad
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i think u peoples dont like others comments bcoz some say love marriage is good and some says love marriage is very bad i think the one who says love marriage is good is married and is married with his or her love and they are happy after marry with his or her love and some one who says arrange marriages are good then they have done arrange marriage thats why they say like this well i think arrange marriage is good bcoz it haas link with complete family and may be this arrange marriage should be good after marriage and they will pass a long life happily but there is another marriage known as love marriage and in love marriage both of lovers may have to leave their homes may be i am not saying that they have to leave their homes after a love marriage they can pass a long life happily while living with their families or with out living with their families
i think both marriages have same condition love marriage have many difficulties while arrange marriage have no difficulties
plz be on ur way through love marriage or arrange marriage up to u peoples
have a nice time with giving comments on each other words  
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Riya
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Love marriage and Arrange Marriage are both Dangerous So plz Keep Think Before Marry
 
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Shahzaibkhan
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Love marriage and Arrange Marriage are both Dangerous So plz Keep Think Before Marry
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Agreed! 
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Riya
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Love marriage and Arrange Marriage are both Dangerous So plz Keep Think Before Marry
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Agreed! |
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mianjahangir
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well in my view arranged love marriage is the best one. though i am having arrange only and i am having alot of dificulties  i think only parents should not arrange there should be a kids decision too. my marriage is early age and is about to break bcoz she said you dont give me time. and i am friends bird. i enjoy more with friends and out door is my daily hobby.
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Pak_Princess
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Arrange Marriage
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| Fri Sep 14, 2007 2:38 am |
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Riya
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Arrange Marriage |
why u think it ??
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Dua
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Love marriage and Arrange Marriage are both Dangerous So plz Keep Think Before Marry
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Me too Agreed with Riya ! 
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AqsaAfridi
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Love marriage NEVER get success [/quote]
I don't think I agree, because you can have problems in arrange marriage as well, and love marriage you can't be happy 24 hours, I mean it's the same.. You get problems. no matter love or arrange.. 
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Green Eyes
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I am a particular male so what about one each 
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| Sat Oct 06, 2007 9:26 am |
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srkhan
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| Re: Love marriage v Arrange marriage? |
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Love is life and wife is your love. Love marriage ~
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pakistan_rocks
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I think aapko love marriage ko arrange bana dey na chahiyay
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srkhan
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Love is life and wife is love ~love
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php_web
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What your pareints decide for you is best for your life. That is a
fact. Because very few, yes very few love marriage getting success. |
Love marriage are still a not widely accepted by our same what mixture of "Hindu Islamic" culture. So in most cases in love marriage couple were being isolated by both families and significant number of marriages fail due this reason only. After family isolation next is society to follow ....
Most love marriages could be successfull if parent and close relatives accept it whole heartly.
In pakistan's "Hindu Islamic" culture women are not able to speak and many so called "successfull arrage marriages" we can see are build on a very unhappy woman.
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Gujrati
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What kind of marriage prophet of Islam had? Was it love marriage or was it arranged marriage?
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djdallas
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Actual issue is not about love marriage or arrange; the success of any of the above comes with patience, compromise and tolerance. If you are willing to use these tools your marriage will be successful regardless it is arranged or love marriage
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| Sun Nov 11, 2007 12:18 pm |
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veracious
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I think "arrange with love" is best.
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| Mon Nov 12, 2007 5:31 pm |
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lak03fba
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Love is a mental disease perfectly curable by marriage....
Love marriage is a bit overrated...
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exsillent
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Marriage Love ho ya Arranged ...Parents key Marzi key beghair nahain hona chahyea...Agar kissi koo shadi say pehlay love nahian howa to Definitly shadi key baad hoo jayee gaa... so Don't worry it will become Lovely Marriage ..after marriage
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yahya
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arrange marriage wo log kerte hain jinhe ishq me na kami hoti hay
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ahson
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Jarri
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THE TIME IS YOURS, EXPRESS YOURSELF
For Sadia and all those who support her view point.
Well practically in wake of finding a girl with whom you will love and then your love will be translated into marriage seems romanticising to me; that is there are very rare chances that things will go this way.
Also I dont believe in love at first sight probably caz I have not had one lol..
I just don't have words to say that how would be it like when u do a love marriage (ofcourse in a positive sense).Ideally its the best thing that could happen to you in your life that u get married with the person you love a lot. Well I tell you that I can write a pretty long essay on LOVE and LOVE MARRIAGE and everyone would ofcourse love to do a love marriage after reading that. BUT everyone is not lucky enough to find the true love.
IF YOU THINK THAT U ARE BADLY IN LOVE(FIRST VERIFY THIS) THEN U WOULD BE THE MOST UNLUCKY PERSON IF U DON'T GET MARRIED WITH WHOM U LOVE.
But what happens in most cases is that the two persons were never in love with each other and they remain in illusion that it is love and carry on with it and finally when they get united things start to go the wrong way.That is the reason why on this forum a healthy percentage of voters have voted against love marriage including me caz...
In search of finding the love you could miss the one who is finding love in you!!!!
THINK OVER IT
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Anne
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my vote is neither for love marraige nore agganged marraige.
how about a fair balance between them? well atleast we can try.
I support more the Arrange Marraige, i will give this Right to my lovely Parents!!!
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shakeelmscw
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my vote is neither for love marraige nore agganged marraige.
how about a fair balance between them? well atleast we can try.
I support more the Arrange Marraige, i will give this Right to my lovely Parents!!! |
I support your/everyone arrange marriage decission.
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Anne
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arrange marriage wo log kerte hain jinhe ishq me na kami hoti hay
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NO......
According to the Latest statistics, More then 78% of Marraiges are Aranged in Pakistan.
Thats means you think 78% people of Pakistan are unsuccessfull in Love???
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