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ali61217
Senior Proud Pakistani


Joined: 22 Sep 2008 Posts: 1553 Location: Lahore, Pakistan |
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Dear Friends,
Assalam-O-Aliakum!
I am happy to be a part of such good forum. I have no experience of writing but with help of you people I am able to write here.
This is all about my real life; in 1993 I was in class 5th when I met her first time yes talking about my sweet Love (My Mrs.). Can you believe? Yes she was my cousin but I was seeing her first time in my life when she comes to my home (LHR) in summer vocations. We were younger in brothers and sisters that’s why no one was attending us, so we start playing with each other.
We often play with mud and use to made home, gardens, cars and such things and assume that that is our house and we are sitting in the car and going for long drive, that was our dream with full of innocence. We play together eat together even work together, time passed and she goes to her family back. But it was very painful for me. Although my feelings were not as I love her but you know what can be wealth of your childhood partner? She was my first and ever partner (AND ALHAMDULILAH SHE IS).
After that we couldn’t met for three years, due to some family some family problem, in 1996 on the wedding of my elder brother we invited their family. That was my EID day after a long time both are we were together but there was a big problem now, she was no more kid in our family it is not liked to sit with the girls. But it was not a matter for me to attend her, (wedding was arranged in village). We both were very happy to see each other, she ask me about my health and studies. We gathered before 5 days of such events it was one day before MEHNDI. Girls were designing MEHNDI on their hands when I approach to HER she was applying brilliant design on my other cousin’s hand when I suddenly ask her do you like any body? She looked at me smiled and remains silence, then I ask ok well if you don’t want to tell me just write 1st alphabet of his name on my hand. She hold my hand and write the first alphabet of my name on my hand OH ALLAH I can’t tell you that was the most memorable day of my life and it will be till I am alive. My entire cousin noticed that we were very close to each other even we never feel the need to speak to convey. Finally it’s done we come bake to our home with Bhabhi.
Bhabhi don’t like her as she was willing to engage me with her sister, she started to create problems in our home and demanding me for her sister. I don’t want to be engaging their coz I have my on dream with my Love. It was very hard to live or talk with out her. But (Jo RAB no manzor or sab no manzor). In 1999 on my second brother wedding we call them again, but she was not good that’s why she can’t join the party. That was first time I feel my heart beet in my mind, it was just going to end can’t bearable moments. I ask AMMI that I want to invite my friends so that I have to go ISLAMABAD. She give the permission that was first time I was traveling alone, I couldn’t tell her about my arrival coz I didn’t have mobile neither she had. But surprisingly when I reach to her she was reciting QURAN when I rang the bell she opened the door and said
Assalam-O-Aliakum! (Itni daer laga di aap nay mein kab say intizar kar rahi the) don’t you believe she knew that I will come to meet her. Even I was not sure that I can be or not. My younger bhabhi was like my friend I was happy coz now I was able to share my feeling with my friend (Bhabhi), I told her about my cousin and our Love. She seems happy I was relaxed now INSHALLAH she will be mine, but my bhabhi (Friend) was not fair with me she also doesn’t like her as my wife. She declare all my confidential to my family and all relative this was shook for me I was relaying on her but what she did?
In the result both of we shamed badly, my cousin purposed by my third brother but she refuse to accept his proposal and said to her parents that she will not marry any other person accept ME. His brother beat her like ………….. . Here on my side my elder brother punished me and locked me in home. I was free dose days, its was hell cage for me, I doesn’t have any contact with my cousin, it was just hell of pain I can’t even write it in words. After two months finally I came from that cage and just tried to grow my base, I am good player of KARATE on that base I got my first career job in PC hotel. Lahore,
From there I work hard and harder just to achieve my Goal to be with my Love for whole my life. But still we can’t meet each other. Then she said to me (Mian G) kiya zaroori hai kay hum ek bhi hoon agar zamana hamin nahi milnay deta to hamara piyar kam to nahi hoo ga, mein aap ki hoon or sirf aap ki or INSHALLAH rahoon gi, kiyoon k mein nay ALLAH ko hazier jaan kar aap ko apna shohar mana hai. And same the wording were mine. This is enough for me that she loves me we beg each other from ALLAH who is the king of the whole universe, and we know INSHALLAH one we will be together as we dreamed in our childhood.
INSHALLAH
Friends when I join this forum I feel that I found a bunch of blessing, peace and moral friends.
Keep praying for me,
Thank you all
_________________ When I got enuf confidence, da stage was gone. when I ws sure of losing, I won. wen I needed ppl da most, day left me. wen I learnt 2 dry my tears, I found a shouldr 2 cry on. wen I masterd d art ofhating, sombody startd loning me. & wen aftr waiting 4 dawn, I fel a sleep, D sun cme out. Dats LIFE. |
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| Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:46 pm |
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urfi67
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Joined: 25 Apr 2008 Posts: 8248
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nice and typical story of innocent love but y ur family is against ur marriage with her??????
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| Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:44 am |
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ali61217
Senior Proud Pakistani


Joined: 22 Sep 2008 Posts: 1553 Location: Lahore, Pakistan |
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My family don’t agreed for my cousin coz they like my other cousin (my Phopho Zaad)
And they choose her for my life partner.
_________________ When I got enuf confidence, da stage was gone. when I ws sure of losing, I won. wen I needed ppl da most, day left me. wen I learnt 2 dry my tears, I found a shouldr 2 cry on. wen I masterd d art ofhating, sombody startd loning me. & wen aftr waiting 4 dawn, I fel a sleep, D sun cme out. Dats LIFE. |
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| Tue Sep 23, 2008 2:52 pm |
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ahmet2910
Senior Member Pakistani

Joined: 21 Jun 2008 Posts: 909
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i have not read the whole story
but i have a comment regarding the title ofthis thread
KABHI US BIWI SEY BHI POOCH LO
WOH KIYA SOCHTI HEY AAP KEY BAREY MEIN
just a joke
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| Tue Sep 23, 2008 4:42 pm |
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ali61217
Senior Proud Pakistani


Joined: 22 Sep 2008 Posts: 1553 Location: Lahore, Pakistan |
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Yes of course ALHAMDULILAH we are happy to be life partner.
_________________ When I got enuf confidence, da stage was gone. when I ws sure of losing, I won. wen I needed ppl da most, day left me. wen I learnt 2 dry my tears, I found a shouldr 2 cry on. wen I masterd d art ofhating, sombody startd loning me. & wen aftr waiting 4 dawn, I fel a sleep, D sun cme out. Dats LIFE. |
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| Tue Sep 23, 2008 5:05 pm |
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hamsafar
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| Tue Sep 23, 2008 5:11 pm |
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ali61217
Senior Proud Pakistani


Joined: 22 Sep 2008 Posts: 1553 Location: Lahore, Pakistan |
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Waaliakum Assalam!

_________________ When I got enuf confidence, da stage was gone. when I ws sure of losing, I won. wen I needed ppl da most, day left me. wen I learnt 2 dry my tears, I found a shouldr 2 cry on. wen I masterd d art ofhating, sombody startd loning me. & wen aftr waiting 4 dawn, I fel a sleep, D sun cme out. Dats LIFE. |
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| Tue Sep 23, 2008 6:46 pm |
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ahmet2910
Senior Member Pakistani

Joined: 21 Jun 2008 Posts: 909
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Yes of course ALHAMDULILAH we are happy to be life partner. |
i did not meant that
you took it personally
i just wrote it to give something amusing
with best wishes to you and your family
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| Tue Sep 23, 2008 6:52 pm |
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suzuran1511
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Joined: 04 Jan 2008 Posts: 112
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i like my wife very much, because she is very foolish
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| Tue Sep 23, 2008 6:56 pm |
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urfi67
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Joined: 25 Apr 2008 Posts: 8248
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My family don’t agreed for my cousin coz they like my other cousin (my Phopho Zaad)
And they choose her for my life partner. |
so have u got married with the girl u love or not????????????
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| Wed Sep 24, 2008 1:13 pm |
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ahmet2910
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i like my wife very much, because she is very foolish |
biwi ko bhi to yeh message parhao
to phir janein key kitni himmet waley ho
bata degi keh kitni foolish hey
ha ha aha
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s0ul_mate1@yahoo.com
Senior Member Pakistani


Joined: 10 Aug 2008 Posts: 620 Location: khatmando |
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i like my wife very much, because she is very foolish |
biwi ko bhi to yeh message parhao
to phir janein key kitni himmet waley ho
bata degi keh kitni foolish hey
ha ha aha |

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ALLAHU... |
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| Wed Sep 24, 2008 1:58 pm |
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ahmet2910
Senior Member Pakistani

Joined: 21 Jun 2008 Posts: 909
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aur woh becharey
jin ki abhi shadi hi nahin hoyi ho
woh kiya karein
aaj tak pata nahin chala
keh bechara kon hey
woh ya
ham
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| Wed Sep 24, 2008 4:04 pm |
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ali61217
Senior Proud Pakistani


Joined: 22 Sep 2008 Posts: 1553 Location: Lahore, Pakistan |
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Not yet coz every one is trying his best to break our relation. need your prayers.

_________________ When I got enuf confidence, da stage was gone. when I ws sure of losing, I won. wen I needed ppl da most, day left me. wen I learnt 2 dry my tears, I found a shouldr 2 cry on. wen I masterd d art ofhating, sombody startd loning me. & wen aftr waiting 4 dawn, I fel a sleep, D sun cme out. Dats LIFE. |
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Hawk72505
Pak Newbie
Joined: 29 Sep 2008 Posts: 15 Location: Under the sky and above the ground |
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True love will find a way.
_________________ ~*~Aisha~*~ |
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chahsanashraf
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Joined: 14 Sep 2008 Posts: 2878 Location: Bahawalpur Pakistan |
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ALLAH SA DUA KARO ALLAH AP KE DUA SONA GA INSALLAH
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s0ul_mate1@yahoo.com
Senior Member Pakistani


Joined: 10 Aug 2008 Posts: 620 Location: khatmando |
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aur woh becharey
jin ki abhi shadi hi nahin hoyi ho
woh kiya karein
aaj tak pata nahin chala
keh bechara kon hey
woh ya
ham |
ye shadi ka laddu he,jo khae pachtae,jo na khae,wo bhi pachtae....
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ALLAHU... |
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| Sun Oct 05, 2008 2:58 pm |
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Polani
Pak Newbie
Joined: 05 Oct 2008 Posts: 8 Location: karachi |
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nice !
Regards,
Polani
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| Sun Oct 05, 2008 3:54 pm |
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urfi67
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Joined: 25 Apr 2008 Posts: 8248
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wellcome to forum ,,, Polani
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| Mon Oct 06, 2008 10:03 am |
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ali61217
Senior Proud Pakistani


Joined: 22 Sep 2008 Posts: 1553 Location: Lahore, Pakistan |
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True love will find a way. |
you are right
just pray for me
_________________ When I got enuf confidence, da stage was gone. when I ws sure of losing, I won. wen I needed ppl da most, day left me. wen I learnt 2 dry my tears, I found a shouldr 2 cry on. wen I masterd d art ofhating, sombody startd loning me. & wen aftr waiting 4 dawn, I fel a sleep, D sun cme out. Dats LIFE. |
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ali61217
Senior Proud Pakistani


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ALLAH SA DUA KARO ALLAH AP KE DUA SONA GA INSALLAH |
INSHALLAH Thanks
_________________ When I got enuf confidence, da stage was gone. when I ws sure of losing, I won. wen I needed ppl da most, day left me. wen I learnt 2 dry my tears, I found a shouldr 2 cry on. wen I masterd d art ofhating, sombody startd loning me. & wen aftr waiting 4 dawn, I fel a sleep, D sun cme out. Dats LIFE. |
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ali61217
Senior Proud Pakistani


Joined: 22 Sep 2008 Posts: 1553 Location: Lahore, Pakistan |
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aur woh becharey
jin ki abhi shadi hi nahin hoyi ho
woh kiya karein
aaj tak pata nahin chala
keh bechara kon hey
woh ya
ham |
ye shadi ka laddu he,jo khae pachtae,jo na khae,wo bhi pachtae.... |
Nahi g aesa nahi hai 
_________________ When I got enuf confidence, da stage was gone. when I ws sure of losing, I won. wen I needed ppl da most, day left me. wen I learnt 2 dry my tears, I found a shouldr 2 cry on. wen I masterd d art ofhating, sombody startd loning me. & wen aftr waiting 4 dawn, I fel a sleep, D sun cme out. Dats LIFE. |
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jaleelna
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You may agree or not the couples are decided in heavens. To make the relations long lasting flexibility should be excersised by both sides. And do not waste one and the only one chance of this life in foolish, meaning less and un-necessary arguments. Keep on preparing for the day of judgement every second.
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| Mon Oct 06, 2008 3:43 pm |
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jumakhan abdulkhaliq
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Joined: 08 Mar 2008 Posts: 4617 Location: kingdom of bahrain |
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meeri dua'aeen aap donoke sath hain,hemat ki hai phal paya hai ab us ka ahtram karo use dil main jaga do logon ki negahe bad se bachaey rakhna,esi main zindagi hai.(mohabat zidabad)

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MAKE EVERY DAY FRESH AND NEW,GO IN SEARCH OF KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE.!! |
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| Tue Oct 07, 2008 1:41 am |
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fairy552
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mene tittle parh ker socha shayad ap married ho lol
well all my best wishes are with u 
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| Tue Oct 07, 2008 2:34 am |
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