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Rehber101
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Hello Chinese wind,

Yes I am in Chongqing, Can you tell me the name of Pakistan student here you know, we are only 9 Pakistan persons in this province.
you are right dear, It is true that I can not like any city of Pakistan as much as I like my own city there, same as you like CQ more than any city iof China, Same is the case for countries, For us as a muslim Love for the country in a part of our religion, like the Huizu people ( a muslim nation of China) love China.

And the story that I wrote was about a chinese girl ( a friend of us) and his cyper friend who is from Pakistan. That Pakistan boy wanted to make friendship with her, we laughed at him because after we come here we knew that no any girl can be like Pakistani girl, same as for chinese people no any girl can be like there girl. ( its not only the case of girl, its for every thing food, culture, traditions, homes, roads, business every thing.)

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ASSALAMOALAYCUM
You people can not think that how much I laughed after readind this post. Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

杨杰, Ni zai ner li, Wo zai Chongqing,


Oh Allhamdule Allah That You Laughed Wink Insha Allah Always my online friend Wink


can you translate that story for me coz i didnt understand it Embarassed



" Ni zai ner li, Wo zai Chongqing" this is Chinese. means : where r u? i am in CHONGQING.



oh thanks

ni zai ner li 杨杰 ??????? i didnt see you here for long time ????
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Hello Chinese wind,

Yes I am in Chongqing, Can you tell me the name of Pakistan student here you know, we are only 9 Pakistan persons in this province.
you are right dear, It is true that I can not like any city of Pakistan as much as I like my own city there, same as you like CQ more than any city iof China, Same is the case for countries, For us as a muslim Love for the country in a part of our religion, like the Huizu people ( a muslim nation of China) love China.

And the story that I wrote was about a chinese girl ( a friend of us) and his cyper friend who is from Pakistan. That Pakistan boy wanted to make friendship with her, we laughed at him because after we come here we knew that no any girl can be like Pakistani girl, same as for chinese people no any girl can be like there girl. ( its not only the case of girl, its for every thing food, culture, traditions, homes, roads, business every thing.)


no i think you are wrong in that my friend
becase We Are here all friends girls and boys and from deffrent countries
we are friends i think good friends not just friends
and what is the connection between the friendship and the food, culture, traditions, homes, roads, business ???? i dont see any connectin ????????? Rolling Eyes


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Hi,

I never expected China to be that well developed.
The city looks very pretty...especially by night.

Thanks for the insight.
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Dear LOJI... I am 100% wrong, if I said what you understood......
some thinkings are in the books and some the person learn by experience... Do you think the friends you have online and the friends you have in your surroundinng can be the same or you have same perameters for both, sorry I dont think so may be you too, because friendship depends on conditions and the things you share....... Take an example, no one want to make friendship with criminals ( thieves, Professional kilers etc. ) but accidently if one is sentenced to jail they will become the friends... So perameters for friendship will be changed in different conditions....

And what actually i meant is this when any Pakistani go to other country his happiness there depends on several things, like how much the people are different from pakistani ( difference between pakistani and Indian, arab, Chinese,british , amarican is not same), for how long he is there, How many pakistani or people same like pakistani arround him, and how much he have to keep relation with natives, how natives behave with him......................... dear really so many things, and you dont need all those to make a friend on net..... Cool

And one intresting thing " when we went to some other city of Pakistan for study, so our friendship and understanding was more with the students came from our own city, and when you are inside Asia, then you have close relation with every pakistan ( no matter from wich city ) and when go out from asia, same understanding will be more with asians ( no matter from which country ) this is common.

And dear MUK, night view of this city is really beautiful, and famous, there are few spots just to see the night view of the city...... the river crossing the city is one of the longest river, dont think it like Indus or Abaseen, unfortunatlly that is heavily polluted, If you see the map of China you will find that this city is in a small province, here thay divide China mainly into two parts South and North because of language difference, traditions, climate, faces and body structure, food etc so it is in South china. The famous food is Hot Pot ( the dish that is eaten when it is boiling because of enerjy source bellow it) and is sppicy.... China have 4 muncipilities, and this city is one of those..... others are Beijing, Shanghai and and other i forgot to pronounce the name........

Remaining Next time

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yeh very nice city
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Hi Loje

busy recently. how's everything going there? Very Happy Very Happy

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Dear LOJI[/color
[color=red]And dear MUK,
night view of this city is really beautiful, and famous, there are few spots just to see the night view of the city...... the river crossing the city is one of the longest river, dont think it like Indus or Abaseen, unfortunatlly that is heavily polluted, If you see the map of China you will find that this city is in a small province, here thay divide China mainly into two parts South and North because of language difference, traditions, climate, faces and body structure, food etc so it is in South china. The famous food is Hot Pot ( the dish that is eaten when it is boiling because of enerjy source bellow it) and is sppicy.... China have 4 muncipilities, and this city is one of those..... others are Beijing, Shanghai and and other i forgot to pronounce the name........

Remaining Next time


Rehber

the rest one is :TIAN JIN. i think there is something i should told u. although u have been staying here for almost 7 moth ( is it?) but u may not make clear of somthing. firstly: CHONGQING IS not a small city. 30 MILLION people. 82000 KM2.
coz China got such a vast territory. each province could be found as a small mass. not only CHONGQING.
after all. IT'S A MAP.

Secondly: there r 2 rivers mix here. one called JIALIN RIVER , One called YANGTZE RIVER. YANGTZE RIVER is famous in the world coz of the THREE GORGES. polluted, yes. but not like what u mentioned.

Chongqing is well constructed and well developed since its became the 4th of the municipality.
'am i in NEW YORK'many people exclaimed in surprise when first time be here.

i do not want to argume with anyone. i know people love their own country better than anyone.

the only thing i want say is: go to see a city with heart. u will find a different side.

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Dear LOJI... I am 100% wrong, if I said what you understood......
some thinkings are in the books and some the person learn by experience... Do you think the friends you have online and the friends you have in your surroundinng can be the same or you have same perameters for both,


I Know That They Are Not 100% The Same But What You Expect From Friendship ?????

I Will Tell You I Expect One Who Listern To Me When I Want Someone To Listen
I Want Some One Talk To Me And When Iam Happy
I Want Some One Corege Me To Do SomeThing Good Not Bad
I Want Some One Who See The Things In Deffrent Way That I See It In To Know Others Views
I Dont Want Some One To Just Fool Around with
yeh i know the online friendship is not for long time sometimes you cant be online but in this time you know that you have people loves you without seeing you people want the good for you without seeing you
and this is will Ease the lonley you have in abroad
and i saw one time in TV Arirang TV if you know it Korian Channel that there is pakistani man lived there and have alot of friends not pakistani but korian as well and he didnt know english and korian languge when he come for the first time there but he lived there ( i know he had Alot of problems in the begining )
but he solve it All becase he Belive That When Ever He Goes He Will Find Good People And They Will Be His Friends Not The Languge Not The Culture Not The Food That Will Impedes him


sorry I dont think so may be you too, because friendship depends on conditions and the things you share....... Take an example, no one want to make friendship with criminals ( thieves, Professional kilers etc. ) but accidently if one is sentenced to jail they will become the friends... So perameters for friendship will be changed in different conditions....


yeh but the people in each country not like crimenals ??? there is Agood People And Abad People In Each Country We Cant Judge On The Person That He is Acriminal For Just See The Court Condemned him If We Deal With This Man And We Didnt See Any Wrong In Him Why We Should Call Him Criminal???

And what actually i meant is this when any Pakistani go to other country his happiness there depends on several things, like how much the people are different from pakistani ( difference between pakistani and Indian, arab, Chinese,british , amarican is not same), for how long he is there, How many pakistani or people same like pakistani arround him, and how much he have to keep relation with natives, how natives behave with him......................... dear really so many things, and you dont need all those to make a friend on net..... Cool


yes i dont need those things to make friends on net but i dont need these things to make friends surrounding me

And one intresting thing " when we went to some other city of Pakistan for study, so our friendship and understanding was more with the students came from our own city, and when you are inside Asia, then you have close relation with every pakistan ( no matter from wich city ) and when go out from asia, same understanding will be more with asians ( no matter from which country ) this is common.

yes you are write that we Incline to the people who are same languge or same country with us but that not mean that they are the best mabe this person who is from your country is bad person and you can't trust him Contrary the other person who is not from your country or not talking in your languge it depends on the behalvior of the person not on his\her nationality
and i think that you are my online friend is better than few of my surrounding friends becase i can talk to you in real isues like this and binifet from each other views Contrary few of my friends here Wink





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Hmmm Going nice discussion !!!

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Hi Loje

busy recently. how's everything going there? Very Happy Very Happy



oh like me i have Graduation ceremony tomorrow insha Allah

i have to pepare to it Wink its late 2 years

hehehehehehehehehe

now i have to celebrate it with my young sister cos she is graduate in last year Laughing


杨杰 iam too ceruios but if you dont mind i want ask you qustion?
if you dont want to answer its ok

do you go abroad one day ??? and where ?? Wink

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Mad Now I have to answer two people and i think both of them are deviating from the reallity...... Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

My dear Chinesewind , actual beauty is in reallity, and how much we go far from that we loose the actual beauty too.
Chongqing is a good, beautiful and nice city, I admired that but unfortunility you didnt found that enough (sorry for that)
Dont you think that if I accept the figures that you gave, then I have to say that Chongqing is the biggest city of the world both in case of Area and Poppulation. just see now

1. Most poppulated city of the world is Mumbai (India) its poppulation 13,662,885 (13.6 Million) area 603 Km2
2. 2nd biggest city of the world is Karachi (Pakistan) its pop. is 12,130,000 (12 Million) area 3,530 Km2
3. Dehli (India) pop. 11,954,217 (11.9 million) area 1,483 km2

So what about the city having pop. of 30 million and area of 80,000 Km2 (according to you) Surprised

But I am surprised that in that ranking Chongqing lies on 39th.
What i found the according to Chongqing is that you mentioned the data of all the province, not the city.
so, The population of the urban area of Chongqing proper was 4.1 million in 2005, the municipality of Chongqing has a registered population of 31,442,300 (2005). and much of the municipality, which spans over 20 million acres, is RURAL.

Secondly that I didnt say that YANGTZE RIVER is the mostly polluted river of the world (soory if my words hurt you )
I just compared it with the two rivers of our country, decide by your self, we take bath in those rivers and we happily drink the wated from those rivers and I have seen my own reflection and fishes in the Abbaseen river, that is transparent, and have no any smell, I allow you to compare those with this.

I say again that Chongqing is one of the most beautiful cities of china, I like the location of the city because it is located in the hilly area and have river arround that, so the bridges and the river side roads increas the beauty., But pleas be realistic when admiring any thing, I will wait for your reply..

And dear Loji, I have to answer you latter, I think it wil be difficult too because i think our discussion entered into the field of psycology Laughing Laughing

But pleas any time any one of you want to stop just say, rather than getting hurt.

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Mad
[color=red]My dear Chinesewind
, actual beauty is in reallity, and how much we go far from that we loose the actual beauty too.
Chongqing is a good, beautiful and nice city, I admired that but unfortunility you didnt found that enough (sorry for that)
Dont you think that if I accept the figures that you gave, then I have to say that Chongqing is the biggest city of the world both in case of Area and Poppulation. just see now

1. Most poppulated city of the world is Mumbai (India) its poppulation 13,662,885 (13.6 Million) area 603 Km2
2. 2nd biggest city of the world is Karachi (Pakistan) its pop. is 12,130,000 (12 Million) area 3,530 Km2
3. Dehli (India) pop. 11,954,217 (11.9 million) area 1,483 km2

So what about the city having pop. of 30 million and area of 80,000 Km2 (according to you) Surprised

But I am surprised that in that ranking Chongqing lies on 39th.
What i found the according to Chongqing is that you mentioned the data of all the province, not the city.
so, The population of the urban area of Chongqing proper was 4.1 million in 2005, the municipality of Chongqing has a registered population of 31,442,300 (2005). and much of the municipality, which spans over 20 million acres, is RURAL.

Secondly that I didnt say that YANGTZE RIVER is the mostly polluted river of the world (soory if my words hurt you )
I just compared it with the two rivers of our country, decide by your self, we take bath in those rivers and we happily drink the wated from those rivers and I have seen my own reflection and fishes in the Abbaseen river, that is transparent, and have no any smell, I allow you to compare those with this.

I say again that Chongqing is one of the most beautiful cities of china, I like the location of the city because it is located in the hilly area and have river arround that, so the bridges and the river side roads increas the beauty., But pleas be realistic when admiring any thing, I will wait for your reply..

And dear Loji, I have to answer you latter, I think it wil be difficult too because i think our discussion entered into the field of psycology Laughing Laughing

But pleas any time any one of you want to stop just say, rather than getting hurt.




Dear Rehber

i think u misunderstood what i mean. yes. i mentioned the population and area. that only mwans CHONGQING is not that small as u think first. maybe it's small 4 u. whatever . i like it. and talk about the city constructions, tell me , did u compare CHONGQING with the cities u mentioned? why we should see a city with prejudice?

CHONGQING IS JUST A CITY, not HEAVEN. beauty, yes. PROBLEMS. of course. tell me, which city in the world is perfect?

i introduce my hometown to my online friends just only want to share with them the most beautiful side of CHONGQING.

i never told them CHONGQING IS PERFECT, they r adults, they can learn,hear and see to judge from other way. but

not according to what i told them.

otherwise, u think i should talk with them the crime? show them the pics of thives, liars ?

Buddy, there r good people and bad people in each country. why should we see the people and country with prejudice?

once again, treat people with heart, u gain even more.

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Chinesewind wrote:
Hi Loje

busy recently. how's everything going there? Very Happy Very Happy



oh like me i have Graduation ceremony tomorrow insha Allah

i have to pepare to it Wink its late 2 years

hehehehehehehehehe

now i have to celebrate it with my young sister cos she is graduate in last year Laughing


杨杰 iam too ceruios but if you dont mind i want ask you qustion?
if you dont want to answer its ok

do you go abroad one day ??? and where ?? Wink


Dear Loje

Congradulations Very Happy Very Happy then, it will be an exciting day, have fun. Very Happy Very Happy

HMMMMMMMMMMM, actually,i dont want to go abroad now. i will go through CHINA first, and then consider about this. Embarassed Embarassed

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Nice zee_baig

Thats what I wanted to say, and I have more strong words because I am in CHONGQING now from 7 months.

I dont say its not good, but not like my country. you will miss your country on your first day if you come here.


Dear Chinesewind, I think the sentence above was my first reply , from which our discussion started, and if that hurt you I say sorry again. Even in that I didnt mentioned that Chongqing is not Good city, I just said that is not like my country, that was not because of beauty, that was because of tradition, food, people etc , as i mentioned after that,,, I think now you agree that no one can feel other country better than his own country in case of Traditions, food, relation with the people etc...

I think you love your city very, even you can not hear, someone saying that he likes his city more than yours.. And not only you , my most of chinese friends like this... And I really appriciate this...

Thanks for nice discussion.

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I Know That They Are Not 100% The Same

SO WHEN YOU AGREED AT FIRST THAT THEY ARE NOT SAME AND PERAMETERS ARE ALSO NOT SAME FOR BOTH, SO WHY GAVE ME SO MANY ARGUMENTS TO MAKE THEM SAME. Laughing Laughing Laughing

But What You Expect From Friendship ?????

I Will Tell You I Expect One Who Listern To Me When I Want Someone To Listen
I Want Some One Talk To Me And When Iam Happy
I Want Some One Corege Me To Do SomeThing Good Not Bad
I Want Some One Who See The Things In Deffrent Way That I See It In To Know Others Views
I Dont Want Some One To Just Fool Around with


REALLY I DONT EXCEPT SO MUCH THINGS FROM FRIENDS HOW MUCH YOU, Surprised Surprised FOR ME FRIEND IS THE PERSON WHO DONT HAVE ANY REASON TO BE MY FRIEND NOR I HAVE, WE JUST BECOME FRIENDS ACCIDENTLY, AND WE HAVE NOT SO MUCH EXPECTATIONS FROM EACH OTHER, BUT WE HAVE THE HOPE TO BE USEFUL FOR THE OTHER.

yeh i know the online friendship is not for long time sometimes you cant be online but in this time you know that you have people loves you without seeing you people want the good for you without seeing you
and this is will Ease the lonley you have in abroad



ARE YOU REALLY NOT DEVIATING FROM REALLITY ? YOU KNOW THE HUMAN NATUR ? I DONT SAY THEY DONT LOVE AND ARE NOT GOOD, BUT AS YOU SAID THAT LOVE CAN NOT BE LIKE BETWEEN THE FRIENDS YOU SEE. dONT YOU AGREE?

and i saw one time in TV Arirang TV if you know it Korian Channel that there is pakistani man lived there and have alot of friends not pakistani but korian as well and he didnt know english and korian languge when he come for the first time there but he lived there ( i know he had Alot of problems in the begining )
but he solve it All becase he Belive That When Ever He Goes He Will Find Good People And They Will Be His Friends Not The Languge Not The Culture Not The Food That Will Impedes him


SO YOU MAKE IT SURE THAT IS NOT COMMON WHAT THAT MAN DID, IF THAT IS COMMON THEN WHY THEY TOOK HIM TO TV. Cool Cool ../..//.. WHATEVER IT HAPPENS WHEN ANYONE SPENDS LONG TIME OR WANT TO SPEND LONG TIME THERE AS A RESULT HE CHANGES HIS BEHAVIOUR LIKE NATIVES, SO BECOME USE TO. IT MEANS HE DEAL WITH THM HOW THEY DEAL. AND IT ALSO HAPPENS WHEN YOU FOR A TRIP (JUST FEW DAYS), SO YOU TAKE EVERY THING JUST TEMPRARY AND ENJOY... AND THERE IS REALLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE PEOPLE WHO ARE FOR TRIP, FOR WORK, AND FOR STUDY....


yeh but the people in each country not like crimenals ??? there is Agood People And Abad People In Each Country We Cant Judge On The Person That He is Acriminal For Just See The Court Condemned him If We Deal With This Man And We Didnt See Any Wrong In Him Why We Should Call Him Criminal???

TAKE IT EASY, I DIDNT SAY ANY ONE CRIMENAL, IT WAS JUST AN EXAMPLE... AND YOU STARTED A NEW TOPIC HERE Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing


yes i dont need those things to make friends on net but i dont need these things to make friends surrounding me


I CAN NOT UNDERSTAND YOUR THIS SENTENCE,,, Surprised Surprised


yes you are write that we Incline to the people who are same languge or same country with us but that not mean that they are the best mabe this person who is from your country is bad person and you can't trust him Contrary the other person who is not from your country or not talking in your languge it depends on the behalvior of the person not on his\her nationality

DEAR DONT YOU THINK THAT BEHAVIOUR OF THE PEOPLE FROM SAME AREA IS SOMEWHAT SAME ????? I THINK IT IS TRUE UP TO SOME EXTENT , DONT YOU THINK ?


and i think that you are my online friend is better than few of my surrounding friends becase i can talk to you in real isues like this and binifet from each other views Contrary few of my friends here

TALKING AND DISCUSSION IS NOT ONLY FRIENDSHIP ,,, AND SORRY IF MIND SOMETHING

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And dear Loji, I have to answer you latter, I think it wil be difficult too because i think our discussion entered into the field of psycology Laughing Laughing

why not if we entered into the field of psycology Wink

[color=red]But pleas any time any one of you want to stop just say, rather than getting hurt.[/color][/quote]


Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes we are not in a war to want stop and make TRUCE Laughing Laughing

and why we getting hurt from these binieft desscusions????? i dont know why you said that ? Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes


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loje wrote:
Chinesewind wrote:
Hi Loje

busy recently. how's everything going there? Very Happy Very Happy



oh like me i have Graduation ceremony tomorrow insha Allah

i have to prepare to it Wink its late 2 years

hehehehehehehehehe

now i have to celebrate it with my young sister cos she is graduate in last year Laughing


杨杰 iam too ceruios but if you dont mind i want ask you qustion?
if you dont want to answer its ok

do you go abroad one day ??? and where ?? Wink


Dear Loje

Congradulations Very Happy Very Happy then, it will be an exciting day, have fun. Very Happy Very Happy

HMMMMMMMMMMM, actually,i dont want to go abroad now. i will go through CHINA first, and then consider about this. Embarassed Embarassed



yes mabe Wink

i know that china is beautiful contury masha Allah and you will never boreing from it Wink

but when you finish from china you should come here in Saudia Arabia ok Wink

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I Know That They Are Not 100% The Same

SO WHEN YOU AGREED AT FIRST THAT THEY ARE NOT SAME AND PERAMETERS ARE ALSO NOT SAME FOR BOTH, SO WHY GAVE ME SO MANY ARGUMENTS TO MAKE THEM SAME. Laughing Laughing Laughing

iam not giving you reasons to make them the same but i tolled you if you really search about good friends you will find them any where not in just in your area
that what i meant
becase you can find friends in your stay city and they will be your close friends if they are agood people
the traditions , cultures it not make big deffrent between you and this person if you both have qualities to be good people first and good friends second
and that qualities what our riligen tought us becase there is people who not muslims and they have same qualities that the muslim should have but the deffrence between him and the muslim that he is not a muslim in name

mabe the food will make deffrence if you dont like eat thier food Laughing but this is not abig problem you can do your food with your own Wink and you can give them some of your food to let them know about your food Cool


But What You Expect From Friendship ?????

I Will Tell You I Expect One Who Listen To Me When I Want Someone To Listen
I Want Some One Talk To Me When Iam Happy
I Want Some One Corege Me To Do SomeThing Good Not Bad
I Want Some One Who See The Things In Deffrent Way That I See It In To Know Others Views
I Dont Want Some One To Just Fool Around with


REALLY I DONT EXCEPT SO MUCH THINGS FROM FRIENDS HOW MUCH YOU, Surprised Surprised FOR ME FRIEND IS THE PERSON WHO DONT HAVE ANY REASON TO BE MY FRIEND NOR I HAVE, WE JUST BECOME FRIENDS ACCIDENTLY, AND WE HAVE NOT SO MUCH EXPECTATIONS FROM EACH OTHER, BUT WE HAVE THE HOPE TO BE USEFUL FOR THE OTHER.

yes this is one of my exception from friends

you dont ecept much from friend sthen why you are talking about your own people ??? Rolling Eyes

you want them becase you have some common ( cultures , traditions , food ) thats it ???? Rolling Eyes

you say it ( WE HAVE THE HOPE TO BE USEFUL FOR THE OTHER ) its including any one not just the people in your area and from your country am i wrong in that ?? becase here you can binifet and be useful for the other and we dont have so much expectations from each other


yeh i know the online friendship is not for long time sometimes you cant be online but in this time you know that you have people loves you without seeing you people want the good for you without seeing you
and this is will Ease the lonley you have in abroad



ARE YOU REALLY NOT DEVIATING FROM REALLITY ? YOU KNOW THE HUMAN NATUR ? I DONT SAY THEY DONT LOVE AND ARE NOT GOOD, BUT AS YOU SAID THAT LOVE CAN NOT BE LIKE BETWEEN THE FRIENDS YOU SEE. dONT YOU AGREE?

no iam not deviating from reality but you need them both you need friends you see as much you need friends you talk to becase sometimes you have friends you see but they are not binifet to you if you want an advice or something as if you have online friends and they become rude sometimes but you will find the good people every where just you should search about them

and when i did say that love can not be like between the friends you see ??? the relations can not be the same there is a relation on net and relation on the same area


and i saw one time in TV Arirang TV if you know it Korian Channel that there is pakistani man lived there and have alot of friends not pakistani but korian as well and he didnt know english and korian languge when he come for the first time there but he lived there ( i know he had Alot of problems in the begining )
but he solve it All becase he Belive That When Ever He Goes He Will Find Good People And They Will Be His Friends Not The Languge Not The Culture Not The Food That Will Impedes him


SO YOU MAKE IT SURE THAT IS NOT COMMON WHAT THAT MAN DID, IF THAT IS COMMON THEN WHY THEY TOOK HIM TO TV. Cool Cool ../..//.. WHATEVER IT HAPPENS WHEN ANYONE SPENDS LONG TIME OR WANT TO SPEND LONG TIME THERE AS A RESULT HE CHANGES HIS BEHAVIOUR LIKE NATIVES, SO BECOME USE TO. IT MEANS HE DEAL WITH THM HOW THEY DEAL. AND IT ALSO HAPPENS WHEN YOU FOR A TRIP (JUST FEW DAYS), SO YOU TAKE EVERY THING JUST TEMPRARY AND ENJOY... AND THERE IS REALLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE PEOPLE WHO ARE FOR TRIP, FOR WORK, AND FOR STUDY....

first he is one of the people i saw on tv and that show is about the people who is


yeh but the people in each country not like crimenals ??? there is Agood People And Abad People In Each Country We Cant Judge On The Person That He is Acriminal For Just See The Court Condemned him If We Deal With This Man And We Didnt See Any Wrong In Him Why We Should Call Him Criminal???

TAKE IT EASY, I DIDNT SAY ANY ONE CRIMENAL, IT WAS JUST AN EXAMPLE... AND YOU STARTED A NEW TOPIC HERE Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

yes i know that but i understood that your example that you make friendship with some one and they Convicted him then in this case you can know if he is a criminal or not becase you Cohabitated with him lived with him and know him


yes i dont need those things to make friends on net but i dont need these things to make friends surrounding me


I CAN NOT UNDERSTAND YOUR THIS SENTENCE,,, Surprised Surprised

i meant that i dont need the culture , traditions , food to make friends surrounding me eather


yes you are rite that we Incline to the people who are same languge or same country with us but that not mean that they are the best mabe this person who is from your country is bad person and you can't trust him Contrary the other person who is not from your country or not talking in your languge it depends on the behalvior of the person not on his\her nationality

DEAR DONT YOU THINK THAT BEHAVIOUR OF THE PEOPLE FROM SAME AREA IS SOMEWHAT SAME ????? I THINK IT IS TRUE UP TO SOME EXTENT , DONT YOU THINK ?

no idont think so

behavior of what ????????? all people if they go abroad what is must matter to them the religion if they go to non muslim country that what importent thing in the first and if some one is not muslim but has the qualites that muslim should has why not we make friend with him ??


and i think that you are my online friend is better than few of my surrounding friends becase i can talk to you in real isues like this and binifet from each other views Contrary few of my friends here

TALKING AND DISCUSSION IS NOT ONLY FRIENDSHIP ,,, ( AND SORRY IF MIND )SOMETHING

yes not only but the 90 % from friendship Wink and i didnt know the last sentence means?? Rolling Eyes



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