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ahmet2910
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DIVIRCED/ BEWA KI SHADI
Islam key shuroo key period mein divorce aur remarriage ko itna bura nahin samjha jata tha jitna aaj key pakistani culture mein samjha jata hey

aisa kiyon hey
Fri Aug 01, 2008 10:44 am View user's profile Send private message
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mere khayal main bewa ki remarriege ghalat nahi hai kiu k her bewa hona koi gunah to nahi hai aur wo apni marzi se thori na bewa hoti hai !

aur aap kaise keh sakte hain k bewa ki remarriege ko ghalt samjha jata hai? kiu k aaj kal to yeh cheez aap hai agar koi aurat bewa hai to usko shaadi ka pura pura haq diya gaya hai !
Fri Aug 01, 2008 11:16 am View user's profile Send private message
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yahan baat haq ki nahin ho rahi hey

culture ki ho rahi hey

pakistani culture me bewa ko shadi kartey hoyey kam hi dekha gaya hey
kiyonkeh culture mein isko achi nazar sey nahin dekha jata hey

yehi situation divorce ki hey

yehi situation age difference ki hey

jabkeh islam ke shuroo key daur mein yeh tareeqey common they

laikin aaj nahin
Fri Aug 01, 2008 6:09 pm View user's profile Send private message
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Yeh sab kuch deen ka ilam na honay ki waja hay.
Allah kay nabi Hazrat Muhammad (sallaho alihay wassalam) nay teeno kaam kar kay is ku sahih sabit kia hay.
Aap nay Hazrat Khatija say jo umer mein aap say taqreeban dogni thien pehli shaadi ki. Us kay baad Hazrat Hafsa aur dosri ummulmomenant say shaadian ki, jin mein kisi ki dosari aur kisi ki tesri shaadi thi.
AUr is mein kuch bewa aur divorced bhi theen.

ham kune kay Hinduon kay saaath ziada rahay hein is liay ham nay islam ka cultur chor kar un ka cultur apna lia hay.
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Agreeed with Nasooh.
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thansk for this topic i found it very interesting
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Riya wrote:
mere khayal main bewa ki remarriege ghalat nahi hai kiu k her bewa hona koi gunah to nahi hai aur wo apni marzi se thori na bewa hoti hai !

aur aap kaise keh sakte hain k bewa ki remarriege ko ghalt samjha jata hai? kiu k aaj kal to yeh cheez aap hai agar koi aurat bewa hai to usko shaadi ka pura pura haq diya gaya hai !


homara mulak pakistan islam ka siraf name he istamal karta hai baqi sab kuch henduown ka rasmu rowaje
hai jehlum main man malik bradre ke nam se jana jata hone lekn uk main muslum hone jehlum main mare pass toyota ya honda na ho to loge batin kary hain lekn uk main sirf nissan micra be chla leta hoin "jab tak pakistan main tha loge koi kam nahi karne date sirf batin kate thae uk main kisi ky pass waqat he nahi hai mari wife jehlum main jay to dear sara sona na phny to braderi main nam nahi banta ......................................................kisi waqat sochta hone ka pakistan main loge muslum hain ya ke hindu mujy to lagta hai ke dr zaker naike ko pakistan main le ja kar logone ko pher se muslum bnana ho ga !!!!!!!!!!
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malik jehlum wrote:
Riya wrote:
mere khayal main bewa ki remarriege ghalat nahi hai kiu k her bewa hona koi gunah to nahi hai aur wo apni marzi se thori na bewa hoti hai !

aur aap kaise keh sakte hain k bewa ki remarriege ko ghalt samjha jata hai? kiu k aaj kal to yeh cheez aap hai agar koi aurat bewa hai to usko shaadi ka pura pura haq diya gaya hai !


homara mulak pakistan islam ka siraf name he istamal karta hai baqi sab kuch henduown ka rasmu rowaje
hai jehlum main man malik bradre ke nam se jana jata hone lekn uk main muslum hone jehlum main mare pass toyota ya honda na ho to loge batin kary hain lekn uk main sirf nissan micra be chla leta hoin "jab tak pakistan main tha loge koi kam nahi karne date sirf batin kate thae uk main kisi ky pass waqat he nahi hai mari wife jehlum main jay to dear sara sona na phny to braderi main nam nahi banta ......................................................kisi waqat sochta hone ka pakistan main loge muslum hain ya ke hindu mujy to lagta hai ke dr zaker naike ko pakistan main le ja kar logone ko pher se muslum bnana ho ga !!!!!!!!!!


what is this word muslum....???
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mera nhi khyal ke ab itna bura samja jaata hai.....per jab uss aurat ki dubara shaadi kerwate hain to aadmi ya to budda hota hai ya koi prob hota hai..even young ladki ke liye bhi...so this is wrong i guess
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zamana bhi to badal gaya hai..ab hamara Islam bhi to bass apne faydey k liye reh gaya hai..
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interesting

important views to be noted down

keep on going guys
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agr mard dosri shadi kr sakta hay to bewa ya talakshoda aurat ko be Islam ne haq dia hay k wo dosri bar shadi kr sakay is liye k bewa ya talakshoda aurat kitni der tk dosron k saharay pr jiye gi osay be moashray be aik mokam chahye or ye os ka haq hay

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YE sub bateen door baith kar, kar ne ki naheen hain,zamana badla zaroor hai ,magar ghirat abhi bhi zinda hai.ladkya pehle bhi gharon main ya daftaron main haspitalon main kam karti thin aur aaj bhi kam karti hain.farq serf atna hai,ke
pehle gharon main (TV) na tha.aur ab to jab se ye inter hoa net gharon main ladkyan badal choki hain. na waqt per sona na waqt per uthna.liken namaz ki paband.jo islam ki aik rokan hai.ye jo aap kehte ho islam ab serf nam ka baqi hai
ye shahed aap ke ghar jo indin drama dekhte hain hoga,warna islam her mulk main mojod hai.aur sadae allah akbar her
shaher main gonjhta hai.agar aap muslman hain to aage bado SHADI-DIRECT.,se rabta karo agar aap ko aap ki pasand na meli to ye aap ki kamzory hai.aur meeri ilteja hai ke apni ana ki khater islam ko badnam na kro. jazak allah khair. Smile



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BEWA KI SHAADI ZAROOR HONI CHAHIYE KYON KE US KI BAQI SAARI ZINDAGI DUKH ME GUZARE GI US KE BACHO KA GUZARA KAISE HOGA SON I THINK THAT A WIDOW SHOULD GET MARRIED BY ALL MEAN S, THATS ALL I HAVE TO SAY...........
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jumakhan abdulkhaliq wrote:
YE sub bateen door baith kar, kar ne ki naheen hain,zamana badla zaroor hai ,magar ghirat abhi bhi zinda hai.ladkya pehle bhi gharon main ya daftaron main haspitalon main kam karti thin aur aaj bhi kam karti hain.farq serf atna hai,ke
pehle gharon main (TV) na tha.aur ab to jab se ye inter hoa net gharon main ladkyan badal choki hain. na waqt per sona na waqt per uthna.liken namaz ki paband.jo islam ki aik rokan hai.ye jo aap kehte ho islam ab serf nam ka baqi hai
ye shahed aap ke ghar jo indin drama dekhte hain hoga,warna islam her mulk main mojod hai.aur sadae allah akbar her
shaher main gonjhta hai.agar aap muslman hain to aage bado SHADI-DIRECT.,se rabta karo agar aap ko aap ki pasand nameli to ye aap ki kazory hai.aur meeri ilteja hai ke apni ana ki khater islam ko badnam na kro. jazak allah khair. Smile
totally agree with u brother !!
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Riya wrote:
jumakhan abdulkhaliq wrote:
YE sub bateen door baith kar, kar ne ki naheen hain,zamana badla zaroor hai ,magar ghirat abhi bhi zinda hai.ladkya pehle bhi gharon main ya daftaron main haspitalon main kam karti thin aur aaj bhi kam karti hain.farq serf atna hai,ke
pehle gharon main (TV) na tha.aur ab to jab se ye inter hoa net gharon main ladkyan badal choki hain. na waqt per sona na waqt per uthna.liken namaz ki paband.jo islam ki aik rokan hai.ye jo aap kehte ho islam ab serf nam ka baqi hai
ye shahed aap ke ghar jo indin drama dekhte hain hoga,warna islam her mulk main mojod hai.aur sadae allah akbar her
shaher main gonjhta hai.agar aap muslman hain to aage bado SHADI-DIRECT.,se rabta karo agar aap ko aap ki pasand nameli to ye aap ki kazory hai.aur meeri ilteja hai ke apni ana ki khater islam ko badnam na kro. jazak allah khair. Smile
totally agree with u brother !!


I second & support.Aadmi jo bohta he wo kaata he,agar hum seb(Apple) ka poda laga kar naarangi lagne ka intezaar kareh tho humari ghalti he.Agar hum apne Gharoh me apna waqt ki sahih sarmaya kari karke apne Mazab,Tehzeeb,Saqafat Etc ki Taaleem deh to Insha Allah nateeja bhi wahi nikle ga.Hume chahih ke "Islam me purre dakhil hoh" yani Islam ki sachi Taaleemaat ka hume Hilm hona chahiye(Mullahoh aur ghallat taor se Islam ke tashrih karne waloh ko nahih balke Islam ko follow kareh) phir ye "Bewahoh se Shaadi karne ke Massayel"ke muhtaliq hum confusion ka shikaar nahih honge.Islam ne tho Bewa se shaadi karne ko Muqadam qaraar diya he,ab hum loag kis tarrah iss par hamal karthe he,ya phir hum dunyawi,muhasharati ya kisi doosre maslehato ka shikar ho kar ghallat faisle karreh tho kam az kam Islam ko dosh na deh.Ye bhi kehna ghallat na hoga ke hum Islam ko tho kam aur Hinduana(Hinduism me Bewa ko shaadi ki ijazat nahih) aur doosri ghalat rasmoh ko ziada(Jo ke TV aur Indian se migrate ho kar aahi huwi) follow karthe hain.
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I think now a days instead of preferring islamic values we prefer values set by our culture. Like we Pakistani are stuck in Caste system and many more these type of things. Every one thinks that his caste is the best one. Thats why we dont want to see life realistically and practically. Its fact that Islam is very easy very practicle and and very real religon.
Now a days when we got problem in our marriage life or any other matter we never go for what Islam says we only think what our cast fellow and peoples around us will say.
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