SOME PEOPLE LIKE TO CHOOSE THE BRIDE OF THEIR OWN CHOICE
BUT THE CULTURE OF THE AREA DOES NOT PERMIT THIS
SOME PEOPLE DO LIKE TO HAVE AN ARRANGED MARRIAGE
BUT AGAIN THE CULTURE OF THE AREA DOES NOT PERMIT THIS
SO WHAT DO WE THINK
LETS DISCUSS
Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:24 pm
jumakhan abdulkhaliq Senior Proud Pakistani
Joined: 08 Mar 2008 Posts: 2805 Location: kingdom of bahrain
AGAR DIL NAHEEN HAI TOU AAP KA KHYAL ACHHA HAI.
**************ARRANGED MARRIAGE**********
KHOSH RAHE TO SADA YE DUA'A HAI MEERI.
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Wed Sep 24, 2008 5:58 am
s0ul_mate1@yahoo.com Senior Member Pakistani
Joined: 10 Aug 2008 Posts: 545 Location: khatmando
i vote 4 arrange marriage,cz yr parents can't choose any thing bad 4u....
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Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:28 am
ahmet2910 Senior Member Pakistani
Joined: 21 Jun 2008 Posts: 909
hmmmmmmmmmmm
Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:30 am
Riya Forum Family Member
Joined: 05 May 2007 Posts: 7379 Location: Islamabad
make love arrange akser loug aisa kehtay hain
but i vote for arrange coz parents kbi b apni aulad k liye bura nahi chunte aur wo hum se behtar hamari bhalai ko jante hain isliye wo jo karien gay acha hee karien gay
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Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:52 am
s0ul_mate1@yahoo.com Senior Member Pakistani
Joined: 10 Aug 2008 Posts: 545 Location: khatmando
Riya wrote:
make love arrange akser loug aisa kehtay hain
but i vote for arrange coz parents kbi b apni aulad k liye bura nahi chunte aur wo hum se behtar hamari bhalai ko jante hain isliye wo jo karien gay acha hee karien gay
right.....
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Wed Sep 24, 2008 11:59 am
zain-ul-ahsan Full PK Member
Joined: 22 Sep 2008 Posts: 135 Location: London
Riya wrote:
make love arrange akser loug aisa kehtay hain
but i vote for arrange coz parents kbi b apni aulad k liye bura nahi chunte aur wo hum se behtar hamari bhalai ko jante hain isliye wo jo karien gay acha hee karien gay
I totally agree because our parents have brought us up they have given everything that we asked for even many things when we couldn't even express or speak and they gave us still do without any rewards or pay back.
So I think as a kid we have some responsbility towards them as well so i think arrange marriages are best because they would never ever take any bad decision about their kids but yeh forbidden if someone had a bad experience then it doesn't mean that it was becuase of arrange or parents infact j'st accept as a fate.
Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:05 pm
jumakhan abdulkhaliq Senior Proud Pakistani
Joined: 08 Mar 2008 Posts: 2805 Location: kingdom of bahrain
zain-ul-ahsan wrote:
Riya wrote:
make love arrange akser loug aisa kehtay hain
but i vote for arrange coz parents kbi b apni aulad k liye bura nahi chunte aur wo hum se behtar hamari bhalai ko jante hain isliye wo jo karien gay acha hee karien gay
I totally agree because our parents have brought us up they have given everything that we asked for even many things when we couldn't even express or speak and they gave us still do without any rewards or pay back.
So I think as a kid we have some responsbility towards them as well so i think arrange marriages are best because they would never ever take any bad decision about their kids but yeh forbidden if someone had a bad experience then it doesn't mean that it was becuase of arrange or parents infact j'st accept as a fate.
AAP KI BAT MAIN WAZAN HAI YEANI YOU ARE RIGHT,LIKEN AAP NE YE NAHEEN DEKHA KE TAJER APNE BACHON KE LIYE KYA SOCHTA HAI.WOH HAMISH APNI QAD(STANDER)KO DEKHTA HAI,IS LIYE DUNYA MAIN YE LOVE STORYAN JANAM LETI HAIN.(ARRANGE)MAIN FAMILY SAPORT MELTI HAI,AUR (LOVE) MAIN NA GHAR KA NA GHAT KA.(NASEEB APNA APNA). WESEY AIK KAHAWAT HAI=DIL LAGEY GADY PE PARY KYA CHIZ HAI.??????AAP KISS KHYAL MAIN HO??
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Thu Sep 25, 2008 8:46 am
Riya Forum Family Member
Joined: 05 May 2007 Posts: 7379 Location: Islamabad
jumakhan abdulkhaliq wrote:
zain-ul-ahsan wrote:
Riya wrote:
make love arrange akser loug aisa kehtay hain
but i vote for arrange coz parents kbi b apni aulad k liye bura nahi chunte aur wo hum se behtar hamari bhalai ko jante hain isliye wo jo karien gay acha hee karien gay
I totally agree because our parents have brought us up they have given everything that we asked for even many things when we couldn't even express or speak and they gave us still do without any rewards or pay back.
So I think as a kid we have some responsbility towards them as well so i think arrange marriages are best because they would never ever take any bad decision about their kids but yeh forbidden if someone had a bad experience then it doesn't mean that it was becuase of arrange or parents infact j'st accept as a fate.
AAP KI BAT MAIN WAZAN HAI YEANI YOU ARE RIGHT,LIKEN AAP NE YE NAHEEN DEKHA KE TAJER APNE BACHON KE LIYE KYA SOCHTA HAI.WOH HAMISH APNI QAD(STANDER)KO DEKHTA HAI,IS LIYE DUNYA MAIN YE LOVE STORYAN JANAM LETI HAIN.(ARRANGE)MAIN FAMILY SAPORT MELTI HAI,AUR (LOVE) MAIN NA GHAR KA NA GHAT KA.(NASEEB APNA APNA). WESEY AIK KAHAWAT HAI=DIL LAGEY GADY PE PARY KYA CHIZ HAI.??????AAP KISS KHYAL MAIN HO??
main soch rehi hon k aap ki is post ka main answer kis way main karon
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Thu Sep 25, 2008 11:37 am
jumakhan abdulkhaliq Senior Proud Pakistani
Joined: 08 Mar 2008 Posts: 2805 Location: kingdom of bahrain
Riya wrote:
jumakhan abdulkhaliq wrote:
zain-ul-ahsan wrote:
Riya wrote:
make love arrange akser loug aisa kehtay hain
but i vote for arrange coz parents kbi b apni aulad k liye bura nahi chunte aur wo hum se behtar hamari bhalai ko jante hain isliye wo jo karien gay acha hee karien gay
I totally agree because our parents have brought us up they have given everything that we asked for even many things when we couldn't even express or speak and they gave us still do without any rewards or pay back.
So I think as a kid we have some responsbility towards them as well so i think arrange marriages are best because they would never ever take any bad decision about their kids but yeh forbidden if someone had a bad experience then it doesn't mean that it was becuase of arrange or parents infact j'st accept as a fate.
AAP KI BAT MAIN WAZAN HAI YEANI YOU ARE RIGHT,LIKEN AAP NE YE NAHEEN DEKHA KE TAJER APNE BACHON KE LIYE KYA SOCHTA HAI.WOH HAMISH APNI QAD(STANDER)KO DEKHTA HAI,IS LIYE DUNYA MAIN YE LOVE STORYAN JANAM LETI HAIN.(ARRANGE)MAIN FAMILY SAPORT MELTI HAI,AUR (LOVE) MAIN NA GHAR KA NA GHAT KA.(NASEEB APNA APNA). WESEY AIK KAHAWAT HAI=DIL LAGEY GADY PE PARY KYA CHIZ HAI.??????AAP KISS KHYAL MAIN HO??
main soch rehi hon k aap ki is post ka main answer kis way main karon
main ne ab suchhna chhod dya hai. dunya main rehna hai tou jina hi padey ga.(be happy keep happy think for today tomarow never come don't lose the time(waqt ki qadar karo).
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Fri Sep 26, 2008 11:54 pm
asad02 Pak Newbie
Joined: 27 Sep 2008 Posts: 1
i think in a way it is a good hting but it has its advantages and also disadvantages because u might not get along well or u mite not the family but then sometimes ppl change as well so u never know this is a very consufing topicccc
ARRANGED MARRIAGE KARO PIR LOVE BE HO JATA HA LAKIN LOVE MARRIAGE MA MARRIAGE KA BAD LOVE KAM HO JATA HA
Sat Sep 27, 2008 12:21 am
jumakhan abdulkhaliq Senior Proud Pakistani
Joined: 08 Mar 2008 Posts: 2805 Location: kingdom of bahrain
DO DIL TOTEY DODIL HAREY,DUNYA WALEY SADQEY TUMHAREY
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Sat Sep 27, 2008 5:00 am
Riya Forum Family Member
Joined: 05 May 2007 Posts: 7379 Location: Islamabad
jumakhan abdulkhaliq wrote:
Riya wrote:
jumakhan abdulkhaliq wrote:
zain-ul-ahsan wrote:
Riya wrote:
make love arrange akser loug aisa kehtay hain
but i vote for arrange coz parents kbi b apni aulad k liye bura nahi chunte aur wo hum se behtar hamari bhalai ko jante hain isliye wo jo karien gay acha hee karien gay
I totally agree because our parents have brought us up they have given everything that we asked for even many things when we couldn't even express or speak and they gave us still do without any rewards or pay back.
So I think as a kid we have some responsbility towards them as well so i think arrange marriages are best because they would never ever take any bad decision about their kids but yeh forbidden if someone had a bad experience then it doesn't mean that it was becuase of arrange or parents infact j'st accept as a fate.
AAP KI BAT MAIN WAZAN HAI YEANI YOU ARE RIGHT,LIKEN AAP NE YE NAHEEN DEKHA KE TAJER APNE BACHON KE LIYE KYA SOCHTA HAI.WOH HAMISH APNI QAD(STANDER)KO DEKHTA HAI,IS LIYE DUNYA MAIN YE LOVE STORYAN JANAM LETI HAIN.(ARRANGE)MAIN FAMILY SAPORT MELTI HAI,AUR (LOVE) MAIN NA GHAR KA NA GHAT KA.(NASEEB APNA APNA). WESEY AIK KAHAWAT HAI=DIL LAGEY GADY PE PARY KYA CHIZ HAI.??????AAP KISS KHYAL MAIN HO??
main soch rehi hon k aap ki is post ka main answer kis way main karon
main ne ab suchhna chhod dya hai. dunya main rehna hai tou jina hi padey ga.(be happy keep happy think for today tomarow never come don't lose the time(waqt ki qadar karo).
Insaan kbi sochna nahi chor sakta hai kiu k agar wo sochna chor de to dunya main apna nizaam jo k us ne khud chlana hai wo kbi nahi chala sakta hai !
aur btw sochta wohi hai jis k paas dimaagh hota hai baghair demaagh k koi nahi sochta (Joking)
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Sat Sep 27, 2008 11:11 am
Aatish345 Member of the Month
Joined: 20 Sep 2008 Posts: 5425 Location: Dubai
ADDAABBB....!!
A-o-A Ashraf-ull-Mukloqaattttttt.....!
Shadiii Kay Faiday koi bata saktaaa hai ?
IS it very Important ?
If it is.........................................
Then wht is the matter of Arrange or Love..............
I think we have to marry for 2 times................
One for Parents........................... 1 - Arrange
One for Ourselves........................ 2 - Love
Sat Sep 27, 2008 12:00 pm
mkshawn Pak Newbie
Joined: 22 Sep 2008 Posts: 6
I think its depend upon indvidual family backgroud (education level), for highly educated people whos parents are not that much educated, the person him/her self need to make decision, because he/she knows better the the kind of people they are looking for and it is very permissible in Islam.
I go for arrange marriage but parents need to be involve in it.
Sun Sep 28, 2008 4:35 pm
s0ul_mate1@yahoo.com Senior Member Pakistani
Joined: 10 Aug 2008 Posts: 545 Location: khatmando
i tell u my own experience,
arranged marriage,easily converts in love marriage..
it happened with me...
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Sun Sep 28, 2008 5:00 pm
shigatse Pak Newbie
Joined: 07 May 2007 Posts: 7
Bhai arange maraige maien bohet bhaion ki lotery lagi hay..aur kuch ko nuqsaan bhi hua hay..
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Sun Sep 28, 2008 5:44 pm
shigatse Pak Newbie
Joined: 07 May 2007 Posts: 7
[quote="Riya"]make love arrange akser loug aisa kehtay hain
but i vote for arrange coz parents kbi b apni aulad k liye bura nahi chunte aur wo hum se behtar hamari bhalai ko jante hain isliye wo jo karien gay acha hee karien gay[/quote]
YES
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Sun Sep 28, 2008 5:50 pm
salmanucit1 Pak Newbie
Joined: 06 Nov 2007 Posts: 12
Arranged marriages are far better than love ones
Salman
Sun Sep 28, 2008 5:56 pm
Aatish345 Member of the Month
Joined: 20 Sep 2008 Posts: 5425 Location: Dubai
so why not we should do 2 weddings.
Priorty to Parents
1.Arrange
Secondly to Love
2.Love
Is this Ok ....
Abb Larnaa chordoooooooooooooooo aur 2 par Ittefaq kar lo....................
Sun Sep 28, 2008 6:01 pm
farooqf Pak Newbie
Joined: 28 Sep 2008 Posts: 10 Location: UK
I think marriages should be arrange but before marriage both the partners spent time togather
and understand each other as the they have to spent the whole life togather.
Sun Sep 28, 2008 7:23 pm
SHUMULUSUYING Full PK Member
Joined: 29 Jun 2008 Posts: 236 Location: China
that is incredible ,but i respect my parents and my religiou belief
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Sun Sep 28, 2008 7:33 pm
farooqf Pak Newbie
Joined: 28 Sep 2008 Posts: 10 Location: UK
yeah, Sure we can be friends. Am Farooq by the way.
Sun Sep 28, 2008 7:37 pm
idusaman Pak Newbie
Joined: 08 Jun 2008 Posts: 6
AAP KI BAT MAIN WAZAN HAI YEANI YOU ARE RIGHT,LIKEN AAP NE YE NAHEEN DEKHA KE TAJER APNE BACHON KE LIYE KYA SOCHTA HAI.WOH HAMISH APNI QAD(STANDER)KO DEKHTA HAI,IS LIYE DUNYA MAIN YE LOVE STORYAN JANAM LETI HAIN.(ARRANGE)MAIN FAMILY SAPORT MELTI HAI,AUR (LOVE) MAIN NA GHAR KA NA GHAT KA.(NASEEB APNA APNA). Wink WESEY AIK KAHAWAT HAI=DIL LAGEY GADY PE PARY KYA CHIZ HAI.??????AAP KISS KHYAL MAIN HO??
